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Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

Vulnerability Means You Go First with Tim Ross

Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

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Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Talk Radio, Default

4.8808 Ratings

🗓️ 18 May 2026

⏱️ 49 minutes

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Summary

Sensitive Content Disclaimer: The following conversation includes sensitive information, covering themes of abuse. Today on the show I am joined by my friend Tim Ross for an on-air counseling session as we process the concept of vulnerability in relationships. What does it mean to be vulnerable? I guide him through the analogy of seeing vulnerability like a pool – equipped with both a shallow end and a deep end. Vulnerability means to go first, to take that first jump, and to invite people to the deep end of your life, and share authentically. He opens up about the moment that changed everything for him, where he decided that he will never keep a secret again, and his journey toward being open and honest in every part of his life. We process through both the benefits and the risks of vulnerability, how to find friends who are willing to go there, and why being open and honest is not a gender thing – it’s an invitation to all. This episode is filled with lessons to learn and things to process about your own life, and what holds you back from sharing authentically. Don’t miss this on-air session, and then go deeper with your relationships by grabbing a copy of People Skills.  The Debra Fileta Counselors Network: Book a counseling session at the Debra Fileta Counselors Network and get started on your healing journey from the inside out TODAY! DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, and founder of the Debra Fileta Counselors Network. She is the bestselling author of eight books including Choosing Marriage, Are You Really OK?, RESET, and Soul Care. Debra is the host of the popular podcast and nationally syndicated radio show Talk To Me where she facilitates on-air authentic counseling-style sessions with notable pastors and leaders. You may also recognize her voice from her appearances on national television and radio, including Better Together, The Kirk Cameron Show, Focus on the Family, The 700 Club, and many others. She reaches millions of people each year with the message of mental, emotional, and relational health. Connect with her on Instagram or at DebraFileta.com.

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0:00.0

Access more.

0:10.3

I won't chase a man to do anything because Jesus didn't.

0:15.6

Jesus walked up to grown men who were at their jobs, their places of employment, and told them, follow me.

0:21.9

And they quit their jobs and followed him.

0:25.1

Yeah.

0:25.9

There was no pretty pleased about it.

0:27.8

Not at all.

0:28.8

And that's my same approach.

0:30.1

My same approach is you can normalize vulnerability and live authentically.

0:36.9

Yeah.

0:37.4

And you never have to have a duplicitous life again.

0:40.4

Yeah. Are you ready to talk to me? My name is Deborah Felita and I'm a licensed professional

0:51.6

counselor, national speaker, and author. Through my blog, books,

0:56.0

and podcast, I have the privilege of helping millions of people get healthy mentally, emotionally,

1:02.0

spiritually, and relationally. The purpose of this podcast is to have on-air, authentic,

1:08.4

counseling-style sessions where we talk about how people are really doing and give

1:13.6

my guests and callers an opportunity to talk to me as a licensed professional counselor.

1:19.6

Each of these episodes is meant to show you that we are all on the journey of healing,

1:24.8

mentally, emotionally, spiritually and relationally together. None of us, mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and relationally, together.

1:29.8

None of us are immune to the challenges and struggles of life, but we don't have to walk

1:36.5

this path alone. I'm so proud and honored to be having these conversations with men and women

1:42.8

who are courageously paving the way for open

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