Vox & The Charming Con Man | Domestic Violence & Narcissistic Abuse

Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

Abuse Survivor Network

Society & Culture, Relationships, True Crime, Education, Self-improvement

4.8 • 740 Ratings

🗓️ 1 December 2025

⏱️ 110 minutes

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In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Brandon talks with Vox about her journey through an abusive relationship with a manipulative conman. Vox believed she had found true love, but soon uncovered deception, financial manipulation, multiple secret lives, and escalating abuse. Despite her efforts to escape, her abuser's smooth tactics kept her trapped. Vox's story, filled with unexpected twists, reaches a breaking point when she faces her own arrest, deepening her struggle. It's a story of gaslighting, physical abuse, suicidal ideation, suicide threats, financial abuse, intergenerational trauma, control, addiction, restraining orders, revenge, court, a conman, false imprisonment, self worth, trauma, and getting support. *** CONTENT WARNING - We discuss physical abuse, suicide threats, and suicidal ideation in this episode. *** If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or send us an email at [email protected] PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS: Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click Here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ The Covert Narcissism Podcast | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click Here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Bitch is a Bad Word | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click Here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ When Dating Hurts Podcast | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click Here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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0:00.0	On this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, we talk with an abuse survivor named Vox, and Vox was in a relationship with a charming con man.
0:10.8	It's a story of control, gaslighting, false imprisonment, quadruple lives, and finding support.
0:18.5	Music and finding support.
0:45.9	Welcome to Narcissist Apocalypse, everyone. I am Brandon Chadwick, and with me today we have Vox. How are you?
0:54.6	I'm well. How are you? I'm doing well. Thank you for asking and thank you for being here. And if you want to be a guest like Vox is today please do go to our website at narcissistapocalypse.com and click on the guest form button at the top
0:59.8	of the page there you can read all of our instructions and please read them all and either send us an
1:04.4	email at narcissist apocalypse at pm.m or fill out our guest form and press the submit button
1:10.2	and please do send it in the format
1:12.2	that we ask for.
1:13.6	And we do have a content warning for this episode as we do discuss physical abuse, suicide
1:18.1	threats, and suicidal ideation in this episode.
1:21.0	So that is your content warning for today.
1:23.5	And today you're going to hear Vox's story, and Vox began dating a man from pickleball,
1:28.0	and Vox eventually becomes an ATM of sorts for this abuser, and she'll later find out that
1:33.4	she wasn't the only ATM he had.
1:35.3	And a big thing with this story is that when Vox edited him, that's when the anger and rage
1:40.0	kicked up to another level, and all Vox's ex wanted was revenge.
1:44.1	And I'm sure many of you will be validated by this story, and all Vox's ex wanted was revenge. And I'm sure many of you will be
1:45.6	validated by this story and everything Vox went through. So a big thank you to Vox for being here
1:50.9	with us today. And I'm going to get it in my way and your way. Vox, the floor is now yours.
1:57.9	A little bit about me. I'm 57. I am the oldest of four children. I grew up in a home with an alcoholic father. And I would say sort of an absent tea mom. She didn't want children. And she had me and my brother, basically one right after another.
2:18.4	And she was dealing with my father and his alcoholism.
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