Victim Consciousness and What to Do About It - Jayson Gaddis & Ellen Boeder - 459
The Jayson Gaddis Podcast
Jayson Gaddis
4.7 • 999 Ratings
🗓️ 8 August 2023
⏱️ 64 minutes
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Summary
Are you ready to break free from the chains of victimhood and embrace empowerment? Join Jayson and Ellen in this episode as they dive deep into the complexities of fault versus responsibility. They also discuss the struggle between victimhood and authorship. Explore empowering perspectives, real-life stories, and learn how to transform challenges into personal growth opportunities. You won't want to miss this as they challenge the norms compassionately, fostering self-reflection and self-discovery without blame. Find out what got Ellen saying "Honey, We Should Have Talked Before You Posted.”
Timestamps:
- 0:53 - Fault vs. responsibility
- 3:25 - Context
- 7:00 - Why do people get attached to their victim stance?
- 16:51 - Finding your part in painful experiences
- 27:48 - Learning about yourself through painful experiences
- 32:43 - When to take responsibility
- 35:23 - Why does resilience vary between people?
- 43:00 - What you gain by transcending your pain
- 45:43 - Dealing with victim dynamics as a coach or a therapist
- 51:20 - How Jayson deals with his victim consciousness
- 54:09 - Personal development vs. forgiveness
- 58:58 - Moving from victim to author
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| 0:00.0 | I can like stay here and say, you know, woe is me about whatever the thing is. |
| 0:05.5 | Or I can say, okay, this is going on and I don't like it and I'm gonna do things to change the system. |
| 0:10.7 | I'm gonna do things to change my life. Hey Jason Gatis here. |
| 0:20.6 | Welcome to the Relationship School podcast. This show focuses on |
| 0:23.6 | human behavior, psychology, and relationships. It's for people who are into growth |
| 0:27.4 | and development. It's for people who wrestle with the paradox of self-acceptance |
| 0:31.4 | and self-mastery. If you want to gain more self-acceptance and self-mastery. |
| 0:33.0 | If you want to gain more self-awareness, have a better relationship with yourself, |
| 0:37.0 | and more fulfilling relationships with others, this show is for you. |
| 0:40.0 | It's my belief and my experience that your life satisfaction, your health and |
| 0:44.8 | well-being and your longevity will be determined by how much confidence you have in |
| 0:48.9 | your most important relationships, including the one with yourself. |
| 0:53.0 | Welcome back, Ellen Bader. |
| 0:56.0 | Good to be with you, Jason Gatiss. |
| 0:58.0 | Yes, yes. |
| 1:00.0 | What are we talking about today? |
| 1:06.0 | Talking about a really charged topic. I like charged topics. |
| 1:07.0 | I know you do. |
| 1:08.0 | You're not afraid to ruffle feathers? |
| 1:11.0 | Yeah, and I get my feathers ruffled and I don't like it so I can appreciate anyone who will get their feathers ruffled on this one. |
| 1:20.5 | Yeah, yeah we I wanted to unpack something you brought up recently on Instagram. |
| 1:28.0 | Yeah, about what would you this dynamic versus responsibility? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. It was a post on |
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