Vault: Would You Date A Man Who Lack Experience In The Bedroom?
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🗓️ 30 December 2025
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| 0:00.0 | The Bird Show. |
| 0:01.4 | But on The Bachelorette last night, here's what we got rolling here. |
| 0:05.2 | Jen, she's up there and she's being jockeyed by all these different guys when one confesses. |
| 0:11.2 | It's about I've been saving myself for marriage. |
| 0:13.8 | I think the level of intimacy needs to match with the level of commitment. |
| 0:17.2 | And I don't want to share that deep, that deep personal intimacy until I've got someone |
| 0:21.3 | that's willing to commit to it. Yeah, you can't say there are a lot of lend to get that. |
| 0:26.0 | I respect that, but it's not about whether he said sex or not. That's fine. It just reflects on his |
| 0:31.7 | belief system, and that might be a little bit too stringent for me. Now, it should be noted that |
| 0:36.8 | dude got X from the show last night. Yeah, he did. He did not get around. Should be noted that dude is gone. He is gone now. Because I think a guy's attitude towards virgins and a woman's attitude towards virgins may be totally different here. Like, I think the fantasy for guys is, at least stereotypically, is every guy wants a virgin. |
| 0:55.6 | Whereas with women, I'm wondering if you guys are out and you're dating and a guy tells you that he's a virgin, does that go in the plus column or does that go on the negative column? |
| 1:06.0 | Is that a catch or is that a guy that you let go? |
| 1:08.6 | Well, I think, you know, you just, we're so used to the idea that guys start young and they're, you know, wild and they're just guys. They're being guys. So they're out and about and planting their seeds and all this stuff. And so if you hear of an adult virgin male, I think the first thing that automatically maybe pops in your head is what's wrong with them. Really? Really? That's the thought. Well, I mean, that's my perception. Now, see, my thought is it depends on whether you are a virgin yourself. Because I think if the girl has saved herself for marriage and the guy has saved themselves or saved himself for marriage, then I think together it would be a beautiful thing. Yeah, because they both have the same belief system and that sort of thing. And I think that somebody who was a virgin would probably really like that if her guy was a virgin as well. But I think that if you have had sex before, but you're going to be deflowering the man, you kind of feel like... Don't say it like that. I don't know. |
| 2:00.9 | Like, I think it would be such a self-conscious thing. Well, I guess another question here is do women want a guy with experience, a guy that knows what he's doing and a guy to take control? I don't think it's that. I think it's more about how we would feel about our own sexual experience, like feeling guilty about our own. Like, well, he hasn't done it. I feel guilty that I've, you know, thrown it here and there. |
| 2:20.4 | And there. |
| 2:21.3 | It's right. own sexual experience, like feeling guilty about our own. Like, well, he hasn't done it. And I feel guilty that I've, you know, thrown it here and there. And there. Throwing it here and there. |
| 2:23.1 | And there and there and there. And here and here and there. And here and here. 404-741-105. My goodness. |
| 2:30.8 | Hey, Emily. Hello. Good morning. Morning. Where do you stand on this? Is it a good thing if you're dating a virgin? I mean, are you turned off by that if a guy tells you that? Well, I actually did, and he was 25. So it was something that definitely threw me for a loop. And at first I was kind of, that went in the negative column, but I thought I'd be open-minded. |
| 2:53.6 | And, yeah, it didn't really work out. |
| 2:55.9 | Really? |
| 2:56.6 | Yeah, it was just like a lack of passion on that side. |
| 2:59.9 | And then also with the thing, I guess what Jen was saying, I definitely have had experience, |
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