Vault: Should new friends hangout with old friends?
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🗓️ 13 July 2026
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| 0:00.0 | It's the Virch Show. |
| 0:02.0 | So I want to ask you guys about the concept of friend jealousy. |
| 0:06.0 | It's something that I've been observing, and I want to kind of know how to repair that, okay? |
| 0:11.0 | Because I, my life was very compartmentalized. |
| 0:13.0 | I grew up in Nashville, went to UT, and the real UT, Tennessee. |
| 0:17.0 | And then I came down to Atlanta. |
| 0:19.0 | It was there first. |
| 0:20.0 | So anyway, so... |
| 0:21.3 | Tennessee was there before Texas? Yes. Really? Hello. Yes. So anyway, so, so came down to Atlanta. |
| 0:27.7 | Well, a lot of, you know, all my friends that I went to school with ended up staying around the |
| 0:32.3 | Nashville area. So when I go see my friends from when I grew up, I go up to Tennessee. And when I am hanging out with |
| 0:38.5 | friends that I made here in Atlanta, I'm in Atlanta. So I never have really dealt with this because a lot of my friends, we don't really cross over. You know, the paths don't cross over. Well, in, in Katie and her friends, they all went to, you know, either high school or college together, because Katie, you know, went to UGA. |
| 0:55.1 | And, yeah. |
| 0:55.9 | And so she went to UGA. |
| 0:57.2 | And so she, you know, either high school or college together, because Katie, you know, went to UGA. |
| 0:55.1 | And, yeah. |
| 0:56.0 | And so she went to UGA. And so she, you know, if she knew the date, she would say whether that was first or not. She is a date. Well, the real UGA. Right. Yeah. Nobody else had tried to steal the colors in the emblem or whatever. So anyway, moving on. |
| 1:10.3 | So anyway, so Katie and her friends, you know, are all, you know, kind of local and they hung out and everything. |
| 1:15.5 | But I've noticed that since, you know, we've all grown older and brought more friends into our circles, that hearing them talk, and I wish I had a specific, I don't have a specific example, but hearing them talk about their groups, new friends that have come in, I noticed they're kind of critical. Like, it's hard for new people to come in to that year. So the car group, everybody's cool. You're either on the inside or you're on the outside. Well, it's like, it's like, for instance, if Jen and I went to school together, we went to college together and and we grew up together, and we've been friends for a long time. And then all of a sudden, I'm working with Wendy, and Wendy and I start being friends, and we hang out a lot. Then it would be the case where Jen becomes jealous of Wendy because she's like, wait a second, I've known her longer. And when you start doing things with Wendy and you don't include me in them, I'm getting kind of jealous about this. I think that's a girl thing. |
| 2:01.5 | It is. |
| 2:01.9 | And I do notice that with a group of women, and like I said, I didn't experience it because I moved straight to Atlanta from college. So I didn't spend any of my adult life in Tennessee. And so I haven't been a part of that. But yeah, it is. And I tease them about it because, you know, there's one thing for me to come into the group because I'm, you know, I'm Katie's girlfriend. |
| 2:20.8 | So it's a different thing. a part of that. But yeah, it is, and I tease them about it because, you know, there's one thing for me to |
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