So I've been going out and about recently just meeting different people and I'm finding that I'm running into more guys and the guys that I'm meeting right now all have kids.

And I have never dated a guy who's had kids, really talked to a guy who's had kids before or even one kid or who's wanted kids.

And they're all like older guys or for me considered them older.

Like 30, like 302, 33.

Like late 20s, early 30s in their mid 30s.

But I mean, nice guys really interested in them.

But the only fear I have is that they have kids.

And I'm not prepared for kids.

But I do want to genuinely get to know these people,

but I'm nervous on the fact like when do they introduce you to the kid or do you have to date

for a long time with the kid. I don't know how all that works and how to balance their time

with my time. I just... Well, if you're not interested, I guess it's a couple of different questions here, if you're not interested in dating anybody with kids, is that what you're saying right now? You're not ready for that? I'm not ready for kids personally, but the guys I'm meeting, it seems more and more I'm meeting awesome guys, but they all have children. And that's holding you back. And that's holding me back from even... There's one guy who's asked me out on a date numerous times and I've just kind of avoided the phone call and the text messaging like right now because he's got a child. And I don't know if I'm prepared for that or not. You've even, I'm sorry, you've even said that you don't want your own children. No, I love kids to pieces. Like, I love kids. I love being around kids. Kids make me feel awesome. They're just so much fun and a non-judgmental. That's why I love kids. They make your hands look normal? Yes, they make me feel awesome. No, kids are amazing. So you can give them a high five and it's the same size. Yeah, but I don't have time for kids right now. I mean, I don't really want kids.

Ever?

Are you saying, you know, now you don't have the time, but are you a person?

Yeah, I don't know if I ever want kids. I don't know if that's going to be something for me. Like right now at this very moment, no, I don't want children. But, I mean, the guys I'm meeting are amazing. They're awesome guys and they're cool to get to know, but I'm avoiding going out with the guys because they have a child.

Okay, let's look at this logically. If you don't want to have... awesome guys and they're cool to get to know, but I'm avoiding going out with the guys because

they have a child. Okay, let's look at this logically. If you don't want to have children,

then why would you even consider dating a guy that has kids? I mean, that's all I'm meeting

right now. Like, I'm going out and like this past weekend I met a guy with a kid who's awesome, and I didn't know you had a kid when we were first starting to talk. But then as a conversation develops and you get in further into the night, then you find out they have children and they explain that they have children. So I don't I don't know whether or not to do it or not. I wonder if I'm like a single parent. If I don think that I would, well, maybe I would be. I don't think if you're a single parent, if somebody says to you, after they find out you have kids, if you say, oh, you know what, that's, I'm not interested in dating anybody that has kids. Probably be offended, right? I think it would be. Yeah, I think it would be. And we've talked to single parents before on like how quickly they should bring it up.

And, I mean, something's pretty important.

You've got to bring it up right away.

See, I almost think because you are a single parent that your time is so limited that I

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