The Birch Show.

All right, Amy emailed us a couple of days ago, and I thought, you know what?

I have been in this situation before on the other end.

And for women to call up and give her advice right now, I think is a little bit ridiculous.

We're going to need guys to call up and sort of crack the code for Amy here.

So if you're a guy and you have advice once you hear Amy's story, feel free to give us a call. 404-741-Q-100. Hey, Amy. Hey, how you doing? Good. How are you? Good. I'm okay. All right. What's going on with the boyfriend here? It's a little bit of, some give and take going on here, right? Yes, it's craziness. Well, let me start off by, it started first in September on his birthday.

He lives in Charlotte and I live here in Atlanta, and I went up there to see him, and we were just having some problems in our relationship with him, you know, calling me, and I asked him what was up with him, and he was like, I'm not in love with you anymore.

And so I immediately jumped out of his car, and I asked him what was up with him. He was like, I'm not in love with you anymore. And so I immediately jumped out of his car and I went to my car and I left. He calls me, he sent me an email actually a day later telling me that, you know, he's sorry

and he wants to be with me again. Okay, so that's one of the ups and down.

So we're together, and then a couple weeks ago on Sunday,

I asked him, where do you see this relationship going?

Because we've been together for two years.

We're not, you know, like teenagers.

I want to know, you know, we never talked about the future.

And he just straight up told me that he doesn't think he's in love with

me, but he loves me so much. And, oh, it's just craziness. And so then I left Charlotte.

And two hours later, he called me on the phone crying and saying that I'm his best friend,

and he doesn't want to lose me, and the thought of not having me in his life drives him crazy and insane but he still said that you know he's not in love with me and he

just wants to keep it as friends and i and now let me ask you a question are you guys as as friends

are you guys you know no well no are you sure are you sure no no we haven't even a little bit even like just

like well even that much no well listen because how about this how about this much we did he kept

trying to mention that you know we haven't had facts in a while. And I was just like, well, I tried not to bring that up because I'm not the type of girl that will sleep with somebody if we're not together. You know, if that's, if he doesn't want to be with me, then I'm not going to give him that. Amy, hold on with a sec. So here, the root of the problem here really is this. is this. I mean, because we can get right to the gist here, is that he keeps telling you he doesn't

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