The Bert show

It's probably best practice to break up with the person you're going out with before going on a date with somebody else

I would say so it just seems like the right order of things right seems, seems like the nice thing to do.

But that's what One Birth Show listener was contemplating.

She was going to go out on a date

before breaking up with a guy

that she knows she's going to break up with.

Yeah, so she had been with her boyfriend for two years, but it had been long distance for

like one year.

Her boyfriend had gotten a job out of state and it was supposed to be a short-term thing and now it's kind of like, oh, when is this going to end?

So lately, she's been questioning and she's like, I don't know if this is right for me.

Like, I don't really think I want to move to where he is and it doesn't really seem like he's going to move back to our city

So she's like I'm right I'm a break up with him. So the problem is she's not going to see him for another month and since they've been together for so long she's, I think the right thing to do is to break up with him in person and not over the phone.

And so the problem is, she got asked out by someone. She thinks she's real cute.

She's like, I want to go out with this guy like I do not want to

pass up this opportunity and it might be my only chance if I deny him once is

he gonna get his ego hurt so now she's in this conundrum she's like do I keep it

a secret from my boyfriend so I can

break up with him in person or do I just call him up on the phone and now we have to

find out what she decided to do most got the email I appreciate the time you

took to read my email and the honesty with your opinions.

I know you hate when people don't take your advice.

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