The virtue so she was kind of given him a line in the sand. You know, I think that there are different lines in the sand

The one that I normally talk about is a mental line in the sand that

Who's is that? Is that mine? No, I don't know what's it's okay. Let's come through zone

Um, like a mental line in the sand that you might have if you're dating a guy for a really long time

And you guys have had discussions about marriage and you've told them

Or her that marriage is important to you and you're dating and dating and dating and he's not proposing

Or she's not into it that you have sort of a mental line in the sand day that if he meets it great

If not then bail. All right, just bail because I have seen way too many women

That have dated guys for five six seven eight years with the promise that he was going to

Well, you know what we're getting engaged. It's not the right time right now. It's not the right time

And then he wakes up one morning just decides, you know what this is not for me

And there she had eight years where she could have been finding the right guy

so

This right here I think in this email that we're going to follow up

But there's a bit of a line in the sand because they're dating and they've been keeping this thing secret and

He said look look I don't want to expose this just yet. Just give me till basically Monday

So she was going to do that and did he take the bait or not remember this?

Yes, because she was going to be at a wedding this weekend and

She wanted them to go as dates

But he was like no, we shouldn't do that because they have kept this as secret among their friends

And they haven't said anything because he goes I didn't want to take the attention away from the bride and groom

We're like wow, that's really that is legit and then you were guys. Yeah, it's too legit. I got whenever do that

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