The virtue if you go to invite one you got to invite everybody or at least if you're going to invite one twin

You have to invite the other twin

That was her understanding or that was her struggle on Friday

Yeah, so her daughter is nine years old and she wants to have her first sleep over with a friend of hers for her birthday

Problem is her best friend also has a twin and whenever they play outside of the house

Well, they all play together and because of that mom felt like she was obligated to invite the other twin over

Whenever she invited her daughter's best friend over but her daughter mentioned that the other twin can be quote-unquote

Time to mean sometime and she doesn't have as much fun when both of them around

So that's the dilemma that mom is having in for the next leap over

Does she have to invite the twin if the daughter has mentioned she only wants one to come over now?

We will get back into our opinions on this when we read the follow up

But Kristen and Cassie were really feeling like hey, you got to invite both that would really really hurt if you're the other twin

And you didn't get invited and I'm like, you know what time start learning to deal with this disappointment

Yeah, for me

And if the if the other twin wasn't doing anything

outrageous as far as like behavioral issues and bullying her daughter and stuff like that

I think there's a different conversation but

In this instance if you were going to have a sleepover and you typically spend most of your time with both of them

And that's how like the email read that when she hangs out with them she hangs out with both of them

I thought it would be pretty damaging to invite one twin and not the other all right

Let's read the update and then we can get back in it and then I'll throw it to Cassie who I am starting to learn her looks very very well

She is ready. Okay

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