Get it the virtue she was going into the weekend

With a lot of pressure she's put on herself

Thinking that she had to talk her friend out of her friend wanting a divorce

It was gonna be the biggest mistake of her life is what she thought

Yeah, so her friend is a new mom and

From on the outside looking in she felt like her friend was about to make a very rash decision based on her current

Emotional status and she feels even though she's not a doctor. She may be dealing with some postpartum anxiety and depression

And she didn't want her friend to make any major decisions in this moment

And so she was trying to find a way to nudge her to talk to somebody to talk to a doctor to talk to a therapist

Before deciding because she's in this funk and she's in this place

She feels her friend is saying that a divorce is what she needs to get out of it when an actuality

That may not be the case. It may be this postpartum depression that is making her feel like it's her marriage

That's causing her to feel this way if your hormones are all over the place, right and you're not

You're not thinking clearly anyway

Mm-hmm will a talk from anybody make you see the situation differently?

Yes from a fellow parent from a fellow mother who has been through postpartum depression and anxiety

Or if you read an article that literally list every single thing you're going through and you're just like you're going through going

Yep doing that yep feeling that yep been there yep done that and then it's all of a sudden like this aha moment and

So and that's the way it was for me when I'd had no idea

I was in a massive depression and for me I didn't have postpartum depression. I had it later on in

After giving birth to Jimmy. I had weaning depression

Didn't even know it was a thing read an article every single thing in the article I was going through and it was like oh my god

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