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Sober Awkward

Unsupportive Mates?

Sober Awkward

Victoria Vanstone

Humour, Funny, Mummy, Life Hacks, Beer, Anxiety, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Party Animal, Relationships, Hungover, Comedy, Paretning, Hacks, Love, Parenting, Sobriety

4.8533 Ratings

🗓️ 24 January 2024

⏱️ 11 minutes

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Summary

In this weeks retrospective episode Vic and Lucy take a look at some red flags. Moments that they wish they had taken notice of when those they were surrounding themselves with were enabling their behaviour.

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0:00.0

So to make the process easier for you, our listeners,

0:11.5

here are some red flags that you should look out for that the people in your world are not helping your drinking.

0:19.2

Yeah, what were yours, Lucy?

0:22.6

Well, I think a really obvious one is if you're out and you say to someone,

0:28.0

I'm not drinking, if they ask you why.

0:31.5

If they recoil in horror.

0:33.2

Yes.

0:33.8

And like do the crucifix sign with their fingers.

0:37.0

And make a hissing sound like you're a vampire

0:39.1

and throw some garlic cloves at your face if they need any kind of answer to that question

0:45.8

and you have to give them an explanation then that's just a massive red flag it should you should

0:52.7

be okay to say hey i'm just not drinking tonight You don't have to give a reason. Now, again, when I was a big drinker, I would be the one with the crucifix and the garlic and everything. So again, no judgment here if you're still in that stage. It was very hypocritical, me and Lucy I. We admit to it. Massively, yeah. We have been these people. So we are sorry about that, but yeah. I was awful. And also, you know, people make fun of you for not drinking. And often that is a passive, aggressive thing. I can remember telling one of my friends that I'd stopped drinking and he said, well, you won't be much fun to go out with any more. Ha, ha, ha.

1:29.3

Now, that was a really unusual response because most of them were really positive.

1:33.6

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1:38.5

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1:40.0

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1:43.0

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1:48.3

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1:56.4

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2:04.6

People who make the decision hard for you by carrying on drinking in front of you,

2:09.5

and that's something we'll get to later on about when you're living with someone who's a big

2:13.4

drinker.

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