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🗓️ 22 December 2025
⏱️ 50 minutes
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Grab your Java for one of our most popular episodes of 2025! This conversation with Dr. Dan Allender helped us understand why the stuff we haven't dealt with from childhood eventually shows up—right in the middle of our relationships.
Listen in to find out why you must be willing to explore your own story in order to create safety and repair what's broken.
Guest: Dr. Dan Allender
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| 0:00.0 | Hey friend, welcome to Java with Julie. I'm Julie Slattery and as we're closing out 2025, we're bringing back one of our most popular episodes of this year. It's a conversation I had with my good friend and expert, Dr. Dan Allender, about the emotional baggage that we bring into our marriages. |
| 0:23.3 | And this might be a conversation that you missed when we originally dropped it this |
| 0:26.8 | summer. If so, I'm excited for you to listen to it. But if you've heard it, this is a |
| 0:31.5 | conversation you want to hear again because there are so much rich truth packed into it. |
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| 1:15.1 | First, I didn't feel so alone when reminded that all couples have problems. |
| 1:19.9 | Yes, even Christian couples. |
| 1:22.0 | Next, there was real biblical advice for how I could be the change in my marriage. |
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