Unlock Your Inner Power: How to Stop the BS and Embrace Boundaries in Love! | Terri Cole PT 1

Women of Impact

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Education, Society & Culture, Mental Health, Relationships, Health & Fitness

4.7 • 657 Ratings

🗓️ 15 November 2023

⏱️ 49 minutes

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What up homies! Lisa Bilyeu here. If you’ve ever wondered if his romantic gestures were just a ploy to trap you, this conversation with Terri Cole is just what you need. In today’s powerful two-part episode of Women of Impact with the insightful Terri Cole, we expose the love bombers and boundary manipulators for what they are. Their tactics of 'unearned intimacy' have not earned your time, your attention or love. As we dive into how they manipulate emotions, paint B.S. visions of a future together you really want to hear just to gain control, I hope you’re taking notes. It's time to have your own back and demand truth in action. Remember, manipulation isn't about love, it's about power. Let's arm ourselves with knowledge and kick these red flags to the curb. “Our job is to have our own back. Our job is to go, ‘I can count on me to not people-please myself out of my own integrity.’” -Terri Cole If you’re dealing with any kind of abuse and feel unsafe in your relationship, please check out Terri’s podcast episode, How to Safely Leave An Abusive Relationship: https://www.terricole.com/safely-leave-abusive-relationship/ And… Don’t forget to check out Terri’s latest Boundary Boss Workbook: https://www.amazon.com/Boundary-Boss-Workbook-Strategies-Over-Giving/dp/1649631421 Follow Terri Cole: Website: https://www.terricole.com/ Podcast: https://www.terricole.com/podcast/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/terricole/ Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu SPONSORS: If you purchase an item using these affiliate links, Impact Theory may receive a commission. Try Audible FREE for 30 days! Just visit https://adbl.co/3TLkgrD or text woi to 500-500. Go to https://bit.ly/ZocDocLisa and download the Zocdoc app for FREE. Then find and book a top-rated doctor today. Post your job for free at https://bit.ly/LinkedinWOI. That’s https://bit.ly/LinkedinWOI to post your job for free. Terms and conditions apply. Give therapy a try, with BetterHelp! Visit https://bit.ly/BetterhelpWomen today to get 10% off your first month. ***Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact?*** Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be! *New episodes delivered ad-free *Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more! *Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. *Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist. *Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab. *Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub. *And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! *****Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP***** Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:21.4	What up, my homie? Okay, welcome to another power-packed episode of Women of Impact with me,
0:25.8	your host, Lisa, Billu. Now, if you have a weak spot for your closest homies or any relationships
0:30.8	in your life, like me and many of us, it can actually become really freaking easy to overlook
0:36.1	the 100 red flags and excuse the shit
0:39.3	behaviour all in the name of love.
0:42.8	Well, my homie, enough is freaking enough.
0:46.2	Now guys, we cannot be complacent with being manipulated and disrespected and to make sure
0:51.7	that we're able to spot that manipulation and have the right boundaries
0:55.2	in place for others and ourselves. Well, my girl, Terry Cole, the boundary boss herself,
1:01.3	is here with me today for an exciting two-part episode with so many gems you want to take notes
1:08.1	and keep them going. Now this episode is about how to actually be your boss to the freaking walls, fully expressed
1:15.6	self, who understands the power of your boundaries and when and how to use them in any relationship,
1:22.6	whether that's with a partner or a family member or a friend or a work colleague. It's all the same. Boundaries are
1:29.6	boundaries and they take the confidence and the skills to actually set them and stick to them.
1:36.1	Now make sure you check out part two of this powerful conversation tomorrow so you don't miss
1:40.6	any other brilliant freaking strategies with the Boundary Boss herself, Terry Cole.
1:46.0	That's a romantic gesture, but it could also be a manipulation technique that can really
1:51.5	be someone trying to get control over you. And that is definitely a red flag when dating.
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