We get an awful lot of couples riding in to us. And a lot of times by the time someone writes in

a husband or wife, they're riding in because some were downstream from their wedding day.

They're experiencing a very painful amount of disunity,

amount of discord. And sometimes it results in terrible things happening, you know,

affairs happening. Addictions beginning. Addictions manifesting.

And worsening. And you have these husbands, these wives putting their hands up saying,

what is going on? I do not know where to start. I feel lost. I feel like our marriage is completely

lost. And but I'm honest, this episode is actually the culmination of reviewing and aware of those

questions and saying, how can we help at this point in the game? How can we help? We lament

to not being on the front end of many struggling marriages, not having the ability to speak into them,

you know, maybe, you know, in the months leading up, you know, to 10 years ago when these couples get

married. But the hope here is to speak into it in a way where God can realign. What does that look

like? Well, in one word, unity. You need unity. And so we're going to talk about that today, but we'll see

you on the other side. I was going to leave the audience a bit titillated before you said, hey,

this is what every couple needs. I was like, we should ask each other, Ryan, what do you think

every couple needs? So now you have to answer it. What do you think every couple needs?

Well, first and foremost, every couple as in every human being as well needs Jesus. Amen.

So we all need Jesus. Yes, and amen. All need the gospel. We all need grace and is left. The one

thing that I would say every couple needs, if I had not already read what we're going to write and say,

I would say love. But I think that's kind of very generic answer. Of course, we've unpacked love

on many, many episodes and the actual definition of love. But you said something else. Well, I said

truth when I asked you when we were going through this, the pre-show stuff. I was like, what's one

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