Unhealthy Romantic Attachments

Coach Corey Wayne

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.6 • 532 Ratings

🗓️ 19 November 2021

⏱️ 19 minutes

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How to avoid developing unhealthy attachments to romantic prospects you should avoid.

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0:00.0	Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne and this is my video coaching newsletter. And the topic of today's
0:04.9	newsletter is going to be unhealthy romantic attachments. So I've got an email. This one's actually
0:10.7	from a woman and a male friend of hers, a guy friend to hers after she got out of a bad
0:18.0	relationship with a guy that she says was a narcissist.
0:24.0	Sounds kind of like a parasite as well.
0:28.2	This guy screwed her over pretty badly and did not treat her properly.
0:33.5	And so it just brings up a lot of good things that I see guys doing a lot as well, getting involved with toxic people, recognizing when you're developing an unhealthy
0:39.8	attachment to somebody that doesn't deserve it, because we all tend to project our fantasy,
0:45.2	our romantic fantasy of what we want as soon as we encounter somebody that makes us feel something
0:50.1	for them that stirs our hearts, stirs something in our souls that causes us to be drawn to them.
0:56.5	And we make all of our decisions based on our emotions, and then we use logic and reason to
1:00.9	justify those. So the idea is we want to learn from these kinds of emails. We want to learn
1:06.1	what was going on, what were the red flags, what was the type of behavior that we should avoid,
1:13.0	as opposed to just getting caught up in the Disney fantasy that we see in the movies,
1:18.0	that you meet somebody and it's just magical and perfect and you live together forever,
1:22.6	and it's just wonderful and it's bliss and there's no problems.
1:29.4	And, you know, that's nice in a movie movie but it doesn't work in the real world and so many people see that you can i mean when you look at we've been
1:35.9	basically propagandized from the time we're little boys and girls our whole even into our adult
1:41.2	lives because we see the same theme over and over, and it's like we
1:44.7	become trained to just respond based on our emotions without using any kind of logic or reason
1:51.3	or any kind of a vetting process. And so this particular woman failed to vet this guy properly. And
1:58.9	after her having gone through the whole thing she saw the red flags
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