Understanding Your Arguments | Recovery
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Dr. Adi and Sophie Jaffe
4.4 • 694 Ratings
🗓️ 23 June 2023
⏱️ 8 minutes
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Summary
Arguments happens all the time in relationships and it can become tiresome. Dr. Jaffe needs us to ask why we argue and understand the deeper meanings within the arguements.
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| 0:00.0 | Did I like it that my wife bitched at me or that I've gotten to fight with her every single time |
| 0:04.3 | that we came back from vacation for literally like four years? No, I hated it. It sucked. |
| 0:09.2 | I just wish it was earlier that one of us said, what the hell is going on? Like up until I open |
| 0:13.2 | the door, we both really want to hang out with each other. And then the moment it happens, |
| 0:16.5 | it collapses. What's going on? |
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| 0:43.4 | cells. I'm Dr. Adi Jaffe and I can't wait to be your guide on this journey. Are |
| 0:50.2 | you ready to become an ignited hero? |
| 1:05.0 | When people then talk to me about we have no sex life and our intimacy is really low and we don't really show up for each other, we don't feel that draw. |
| 1:10.0 | Pretty quickly you learn that what people did is they start out as polar, right? Like when you're, when you're in the chase with somebody oftentimes in a relationship, the man kind of puffs up and |
| 1:15.3 | tries to be bigger than he feels like really. And women make themselves more docile and kind of go, |
| 1:20.5 | oh, it's so cute to be with you. And so like we create this polarity. But then over time, |
| 1:25.8 | a lot of times in coupleships, it just kind of evens out. Man starts not being able to kind of hold that space. Woman steps in to fill in some of |
| 1:32.2 | those roles. The next thing you know, we're kind of like roommates more than we're two people who |
| 1:36.9 | are chasing each other. And so we have to find ways to bring that back. It's not going to come back |
| 1:41.5 | automatically. We have to practice it, right? Once we've screwed up for long |
| 1:45.7 | enough or once we haven't shown up as the authentic version of ourselves, we've gotten somewhat |
| 1:50.9 | emasculated by our own doing, right? We kind of, we got comfortable and we kind of stepped into |
| 1:57.6 | this other role. And in a way, you have to show back up. |
| 2:01.1 | You have to, or maybe it's never been there. |
| 2:02.6 | You have to bring out this man in you. |
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