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Calm it Down

Understanding Someone Else - Currency Part 2

Calm it Down

Chad Lawson

Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.8896 Ratings

🗓️ 28 December 2021

⏱️ 13 minutes

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Summary

We pick up from last week's episode Understanding You - Currency, Part 1 as we turn our focus now to someone else; Understanding Someone Else - Currency Part 2. After hearing this episode, I hope you are inspired with a new perspective in being able to connect with someone besides yourself. Be it your spouse, your sibling, even a stranger. Listen in as I share a few key secrets in building relationships that will forever stay with you.

Transcript

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0:00.0

In 1905, a remarkable story was published in the New York World, which was a newspaper based out of the New York area at the time.

0:10.2

Having just celebrated the Christmas season, I thought it was timely to share the tale, though you're probably already familiar with it.

0:17.3

Written by O'Henry, whose real name was William Sidner Porter, he writes about a couple

0:22.8

living through a most difficult time just before Christmas. Barely a dollar to their name.

0:29.5

The wife in this story, her name is Della Young, she visits a local hairdresser who buys Della's

0:35.7

long hair. With the $20, she buys a platinum pocket watch chain

0:41.8

for her husband's Christmas present. Later, as they were together, she confessed that she sold her

0:48.5

hair to buy the watch chain. Jim, the husband, then gives Della her gift, a set of ornamental combs which he bought

0:59.3

after selling, you guessed it, his pocket watch. Per of the story, neither Jim or Della were

1:07.4

upset, as it only emphasized the links that they would go and showing their dedication

1:12.6

to each other. While the gifts were a gesture of sacrifice and selflessness, it was the act

1:19.9

behind the gifts that really showed how far Della and Jim were willing to give of themselves to each other.

1:29.3

And while the gift of the Magi is fiction, allegedly written at Pete's Tavern, which is a great

1:35.2

pub in New York, if you're ever in the area, the story of Della and Jem pulled at their heartstrings

1:40.8

of millions long before the Allmark channel aired its first series.

1:47.4

So, currency.

1:49.8

I asked this question in last week's episode, part one of this two-part series of Understanding

1:55.3

You.

1:56.6

If you haven't checked out last week's episode, please, please, pause this and give that one a spin first.

2:02.5

It will be far less confusing.

2:05.1

But I ask, what is your currency?

2:09.3

Did you make a list last week?

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