Stop looking to others to validate your reality.

In this episode, you're going to get a very advanced explanation into the psychology of gas lighting.

I'm going to tell you things that you haven't heard

anywhere else. But quickly before we get into that a little side note and as a

side note to the side note. I think in the past what I've done with my episodes that I just

jumped straight into the topic or I did a long introduction and then at the very

end of the episode I would usually do some sort of like little additional points a little tip or trick or a little bit of a

pointing out of a trap I think what I need to do is start pointing out some of the traps early on in the episodes because most people don't watch it to the end.

So I'm going to sort of like reverse the order here a little bit and give you a little tip.

So here's one of the most important tips and traps of following my work and just basically

any of this kind of work whether you're following me or other teachers on

psychological matters, spiritual matters and so forth. The most important thing in following my work is that you

think for yourself. I can't stress this enough. You have to think for yourself. I can be very charismatic and persuasive.

I can persuade you of many things. That doesn't mean it's true.

A lot of people in the world are very persuasive but they're full of

shit and sometimes I can be full of shit too you know I'm not I'm not perfectly

clean in my life and in my psychology and my mind almost nobody is so this is an unrealistic thing to expect

from somebody that you learn from so the way that you counteract that is by thinking for yourself

and also some of the things I might be sharing with you

are coming from my own point of view, my own life experience.

It can't be otherwise.

And my point of you in my life experience can be

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