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I'm like, you know, I said to someone the other day, sex for me is like a broken bag. Yeah, I don't have too many. I don't do it too often, but when I do it, it's great.

What's up, everyone? Welcome to another episode of Melissa Gorga on display. You guys are going to be so excited today because I have a very special lady with me who we all believe she just, you know, live in New Jersey at this point because she's just like one of us can explain it, but she's one of us. You know her as one of the former real housewives of New York.

She's a business woman in entrepreneur and the lady of the blue stone manner. You can catch her on the next season starting tonight of the ultimate girls trip. Ladies and gentlemen, Jorinda medley is here.

Listen, I'm so happy to be on. I love Melissa and Joe so much. I just, you know, always have a soft spot for you guys.

Thank you. No, you've always, I will say you do always come whenever we see you do have a soft spot and you always talk to us and help us through. I feel like you.

There's a piece you that just feels like one of us. I don't know if it's the Italian in you. Yeah.

Well, because you know what? I know how to throw. I know how to be a lady. I know how to be sexy. I know how to be a mom and I know how to throw down.

I tell it like it is, but I always make it nice. Isn't that the way it goes? It is. I love your isms. I miss your isms. I'm going to miss you.

I'm not going to miss that whole show actually. And I do miss you on the show. I feel like you really, you were, you were one of the ladies that came in and just owned it from like day one.

It wasn't like you were a newbie ever. You were never a newbie. You just remember I knew all those girls for so long. And I've been, you know, I'll end the background and we've known each.

It's kind of like that's why Jersey works because we really knew each other. So a lot of there's been so many times and I've been off camera with the girls. I'm thinking, God, this would just make a great scene because I think it's so important.

As with your show. And I think that's why it does so well is that it's authentic. You know, you can see these girls living like that. And you can see them.

It's your chain like that. It's not all about the hair and makeup. It's about life. Right.

And I would say when you're a good reality star, you know, you have to be ready for the good, the bad, the happy, the sad and let people cycle through it and see that you're human.

I do love for a lot of these women that get on the show now. They so worry about their image and worry about what a people going to think who gives a shit.

They don't cycle through it. Let people love you. Let people hate you. And that's how we learn from women like us because we are not we're perfectly imperfect.

Amen, sister. You couldn't have said it better. And that's the truth. And you know what, you, that is the advice I would love to give to any like newbie starting off on our show or just on all these franchises in general, because what you just said really like pins it.

It's like they're going to love you. They're going to hate you. They're going to remember whatever you did last, not what you did good.

Like four months ago. And it is what it is. And just.

Someone said to me, what do you think about when the good people and so and so someone said something bad about you.

I'm like, listen, I didn't know the girl before. I'm not going to know. We're asking this is not a popularity contest for me.

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