Hey, what's going on guys? Welcome back to Dreamy Scott Fender's podcast, a radio show.

Coming to you on this late night Friday edition here. And if you're in IGTV, Facebook, YouTube,

welcome. Thank you for watching. I'm going to read through the show notes here. This will end up over

on the blog if you guys want to read it there or if you want to be on our newsletter. I'll send it out

probably in a week or so you can see it. But the concept I'm going to talk about here is very basic. We do it in all of our coaching

groups and it's about accountability. It's about extreme ownership. It's about ultimate

responsibility for you guys. It's what I like to term, the difference between being an adult

and being a kid. I'm talking grown-ass man decisions here, or women for that matter.

And all it is about is you guys being accountable for your life and where it's at.

And the minute that you can understand that your life and where it's at and the happiness

you have in it in every area is directly connected to the decisions that you have made up to this

point, nobody else is in control of your life but you.

And when you get to a place where you have extreme accountability of what's going on, shit gets really good, really fast because there's nobody else to blame. Everything falls on you, and that's the beauty of it. You were in ultimate control, and that's a place that I like to be. And I'll say this. Life isn't fair, and I know that for you guys shitty stuff happens tragic shit death

sickness illness horrible fucking events for no reason happen to good people every

single day and I don't have an answer for that and I know life isn't even for all

of us some people start on third base and everything is handed to them and they have a

much easier path and what I believe is you know who much is given much tested. And what I mean by that is like those of us that get the shittier path who have to eat more shit and go through tougher things, it's because we can handle it. And it's because it's a test to us, honestly, that if we can come out on the other side, we're that much better for it and we can change the world and we can change anything we want if we can get through it. So you can't control the shit that happens to you. I know that. But you can control the way you react to it, the way you think about it, and what you do with those things. And I told my wife this just last night actually, you know, two of my greatest gifts, and I don't have a lot. I don't naturally have many but two of my greatest gifts in life were

A, I grew up broke with no money and limited resources and I didn't have a lot of things other kids had I didn't get to do a lot of other things they had to do and I learned early on that life was not fair and if I wanted shit I was going to have to work my fucking face off for it and it was going to be harder for me than a lot of other people. I knew that. It's something I accepted at probably about the age of eight. And number two, I got sick as shit. I had my health completely stripped away from me. I remember laying in a bathroom floor wishing I would die. I mean, that's where I was at. And it's really hard to see

those things as gifts when you're young and when you're in them. And I know for you guys right now,

if you're in the middle of a storm and life is kicking you in the fucking teeth and 18 things are

going wrong and you're dealing with some really heavy shit right now, it's hard to see it as a

blessing. And I don't know what I's to tell you, but like when you get through it, it's peaks and valleys, man.

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