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UnF*ck Your Brain: Feminist Self-Help for Everyone

UFYB 271: Attachment and Friendship in Adulthood: A Conversation with Dr. Marisa G. Franco

UnF*ck Your Brain: Feminist Self-Help for Everyone

Kara Loewentheil

Education, Society & Culture, Philosophy, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.65.6K Ratings

🗓️ 5 January 2023

⏱️ 34 minutes

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Summary

I hear from clients all the time how hard it is to build new friendships in adulthood. But is that actually true? Or are we making that be true by holding onto outdated beliefs about friendship? If you desire more friendships in your life, you won’t want to miss my discussion with Dr. Marisa G. Franco. Tune into this week’s episode as Dr. Franco and I discuss how outdated ideas about friendship can make it harder to form new ones in adulthood, how looking to friends to make you feel good about yourself can be a recipe for disaster, and the role that romance plays in friendships.

Get full show notes and more information here: https://unfuckyourbrain.com/271

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0:00.0

Welcome to Unfuck Your Brain, the only podcast that teaches you how to use psychology, feminism

0:13.8

and coaching to rewire your brain and get what you want in life.

0:18.6

And now here's your host, Harvard Law School grad, feminist rock star, and master coach,

0:24.7

Carla Lohanthial.

0:25.7

Hello, my chaguns.

0:27.2

I am super excited for this conversation today.

0:32.8

We are going to be talking to the incredible Dr. Marissa G. Franco.

0:37.1

Don't get her confused with the other Dr. Marissa Franco.

0:39.8

This is the OG that we have here.

0:42.0

And we're going to be talking about an area that I think does not get enough attention.

0:46.9

So I'm super excited that she's bringing all of this attention to it and where not surprisingly

0:51.4

your mindset impacts how you show up quite a bit and that is friendship.

0:55.8

So I would love Dr. Franco if you would tell us a little bit about yourself and tell us

0:59.4

about the exciting news that you just got right before we got on this.

1:02.6

Yes, yes.

1:03.6

So I am a professor, a psychologist, a speaker, an author of the book, Platonic, how the

1:10.0

science of attachment can help you make and keep friends, which as of yesterday has become

1:15.7

a New York kind of facility.

1:17.8

I wish you had like sound effects like a shock jock so I could like do a drum roll or

1:22.6

like confetti coming out.

1:24.0

So exciting.

1:25.0

Thank you.

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