UFYB 266: Personalization: Getting it Wrong v. Being Wrong
UnF*ck Your Brain: Feminist Self-Help for Everyone
Kara Loewentheil
4.6 • 5.6K Ratings
🗓️ 1 December 2022
⏱️ 19 minutes
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Summary
How do you treat yourself when you don’t get the result you want? Or when you’re wrong about something? Or when you act in a way that you don’t like? Do you have your own back in these situations or do you make it mean there’s something wrong with you as a person?
Listen in as I discuss the difference between doing wrong and being wrong, how thinking you’re wrong can actually make you less likely to fix what went wrong in the first place, and how shame from being wrong keeps you from going after what you want in life.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to Unfuck Your Brain. The only podcast that teaches you how to use psychology, feminism |
| 0:13.8 | and coaching to rewire your brain and get what you want in life. And now here's your |
| 0:19.3 | host, Harvard Law School grad, feminist rock star, and master coach, Carla Lohanthile. |
| 0:26.3 | Hello my chickens, how are you? I'm feeling pretty good. My brain is tired, but I've been on |
| 0:36.8 | the road for about 10 days and my body was very confused and didn't really want to sleep. |
| 0:43.6 | And so my sleep schedule is all wacky and it was actually super interesting because I love |
| 0:49.0 | to find places in my life where I noticed that like one version of something I have so |
| 0:54.6 | many thoughts about and then another version of something I'm totally chill about. And to |
| 0:59.9 | see that contrast is always so helpful for me because it just like shows me how optional |
| 1:05.3 | my thoughts are. So I've talked to the podcast before about having you know chronic pain |
| 1:10.8 | and doing thought work around chronic pain and I've come a long way in my thoughts and |
| 1:15.3 | around chronic pain stuff. But I still do tend to have a more kind of fraught relationship |
| 1:22.2 | with those symptoms let's say where I've had to really train myself to like not jump |
| 1:27.0 | straight to trying to fix things, not you know regard symptoms as a problem to take |
| 1:32.4 | down the like fear and stress response and response to pain symptoms. So it's like that's |
| 1:37.0 | only a sort of actively work on. Let me just say in advance no need to DM me with your |
| 1:41.7 | thoughts about whatever I'm about to say I have my own you know medical care providers |
| 1:47.1 | that consult as needed. So my sleep has been very wonky for like the last few weeks and |
| 1:53.5 | it's been tied to some also some physical like movement stuff I've been doing and so |
| 1:57.7 | some of it has been like sore muscles. Some of it has potentially been you know having |
| 2:02.4 | been sick that I was traveling that I was jet lagged. But the point is that for like |
| 2:07.1 | a while maybe like three or four weeks I I am historically somebody who can just like |
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