Welcome to Unfuck Your Brain. The only podcast that teaches you how to use psychology, feminism

and coaching to rewire your brain and get what you want in life. And now here's your

host, Harvard Law School grad, feminist rock star, and master coach, Carla Lohanthile.

Hello, my chickens. There's a way in which I think today's episode could be the most important

episode I've ever recorded, even though it's kind of not about anything in particular,

but it is about everything at the same time. How's that for a sales bitch? I'm a good sales

person. So we were having this conversation recently. Inside the clutch Facebook groups,

it clutches my feminist coaching program. And as part of that, we have a Facebook group

for kind of community and discussions, you know, separate from our amazing kind of membership

site where all the lessons and the audios and workbooks and stuff are. So we have the

Facebook group for kind of community discussion. And, you know, even though obviously everyone

is there to discuss thought work and what I'm teaching and their own self coaching, they're

working through and to get support, there's a real variety of opinions, of course, right,

about the world and everything in it. And there is this one particular conversation that

was going on that was so interesting to me where, you know, some people were saying, like,

yes, the model explains everything in this way. And then the kind of coaching model that

I teach and then some people were like, really, it's like trauma that explains everything

and then other people were like, no, it's this thing that explains everything. And then

there were sort of people saying, like, why, I hope it's okay to say that, like, I have

this question, I'm not sure I agree with this. And it was just such a, like, interesting

reflection to me of the way in which our brains want there to be one answer to everything.

Right. We want there to be certain to you. We want there to be an answer. We want there

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