I had never met another person with a disability that was like me that would do anything to do what we got to do.

We wanted the same sort of life that everybody else wanted to do and we would do anything to get that.

This is death, sex, and money.

Did you kill them?

No, they just date.

The show from WNYC about the things we think about a lot.

Oh, I see, you think you're the only one who's sexually frustrated.

And need to talk about more.

Tets of work, you haven't paid me one cent.

I'm Anna Sale.

Nicki Villavacensio and Darrell Paulson

have a five-year-old daughter.

Her name is Ali.

She'll say things to us like when she was about two and a half she would say

when do I get my wheelchair? And we're like well maybe you don't get a wheelchair.

And she has a stroller that she pretends as her wheelchair.

Yeah.

Their daughter doesn't need a wheelchair, but Nicki and Darryl both use one.

I'm in my chair probably a good 18 to 20 hours a day.

Darryl and Nicky have both been disabled since birth. Tharryl has cerebral palsy,

and Nicki has a rare condition that makes her joint stiff.

It's called arthrogyposis.

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