The amount of times I told him to be careful on that bloody bike. Like honestly, I used to say it all the time and it makes me mad to be like your carelessness has cost you so much and our relationship so much.

And you know it's one thing to blind side yourself but I blind side of Rachel as well.

This is death, sex, and money. Could you just skate, dad?

The show from WNYC about the things we think about a lot and need to talk about more

We might be a make with Lula with really? That sounds pretty good. I'm Anna Sam I mean a sale.

When I talked to Rachel Swidden Bank and Heroke Taki Yuichi, they were sitting in

their apartment in London.

I was in California.

Okay, can you hear me now?

I can hear you now.

This is what I can find.

Yeah, this is great. Rachel and Heroki moved into this place last summer,

just before they got married in August.

Do you have wedding pictures in your apartment?

Yeah, we have one up on the wall. The two of us stood together outside the reception.

It's weird like I'm looking at it now and it's it does feel weird.

Well I actually found more difficult was the video we got video made

that I find even now watching it I find it really difficult

Before their wedding Rachel and Heroki had been together for 11 years they met his college students at Oxford

Literally like just flown out of my parents nest and then straight into Herrokee's arms basically is what happened.

They dated for 10 years before they got married.

Rachel was 29 and Hiroki was 30.

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