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Jillian on Love

Turning Partners into Projects: Breaking the The Cycle of Rescuing and Codependency

Jillian on Love

Daylight Media

Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Mental Health, Relationships

4.8 • 1.5K Ratings

🗓️ 4 September 2023

⏱️ 43 minutes

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Summary

The dance between autonomy and dependence is an ongoing pursuit in a relationship, and for some, it's a hard balance to find. In this episode, Jillian explains the origin of the codependent relationship and why the pattern of turning partners into projects only leads to the destruction of a relationship -- or one that should never have been to begin with. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki Tik Tok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at www.jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hi there. It's Jillian and I want to tell you about Jillian on Love Plus your way to get even more

0:06.2

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0:15.8

answers to your most burning questions, advice on all things dating and

0:20.8

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0:23.4

Check out the link in the episode description

0:25.4

for more information.

0:27.0

Hi there, this is Jillian on Love

0:31.2

and I am on a mission to teach people how to transform their romantic relationships

0:37.0

by first transforming the relationship they have with themselves.

0:41.0

So whether you are in a relationship, you're single or your heartbroken, I've got you covered.

0:47.0

I'm Jillian Terecky, certified relationship coach and teacher with over 20 years experience.

0:53.3

Helping people transform their relationship with themselves

0:56.8

through their bodies, breaths, and minds.

0:59.0

I have now coached and taught thousands of people

1:02.0

to become better versions of themselves

1:04.0

and change the way they show up for and within their love lives.

1:08.0

In today's episode I'm going to talk about codependency very much specifically in the realm of

1:18.8

wanting to heal or rescue someone turning partners into projects and I'm going to discuss the

1:28.2

nuance of it and how to heal. So the first thing that I will say because this is a very big topic is the

1:37.9

word cod dependent in my opinion is terribly overused. I mean it's like as soon as someone is relying on their

1:48.6

partner they're calling themselves co-dependent. It'sused, it's gotten a very bad rap. And the origin of a

1:58.0

cod dependent relationship is based on a relationship between an addict and his or her partner and the dynamic

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