Turn Obligation Into Opportunity by Asking this One Question with Lori Harder
The Chris Harder Show
Chris Harder
4.9 • 1.5K Ratings
🗓️ 25 June 2025
⏱️ 13 minutes
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Summary
Lori and I were out on our morning walk, running through everything we had on our calendars, and honestly, it felt overwhelming. Then one question completely shifted our perspective. That one question turned obligation into opportunity. It helped us see even the busiest days as a gift. In this episode, we break down how to shift your mindset from "I have to" to "I get to," and then take it one step further. Plus, Lori just dropped our Power Couple Playbook, which has every ritual we've used to grow a thriving marriage and multiple businesses together. Tune in and flip your mindset from pressure to purpose.
HIGHLIGHTS
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The ONE question that turned a hectic day into our most meaningful.
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How to shift from "I have to" to "I get to".
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How to find richness in the ordinary (even on your commute!).
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Why your calendar isn't the problem.
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A story about gym gratitude that will change how you see your body.
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Tips for richer daily interactions.
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | The single most important decision you'll ever make in your life is how you choose to view the day each day. |
| 0:04.2 | Every interaction you have with a human, instead of just making it a passing interaction, you ask them about themselves. |
| 0:10.6 | Hey, by the way, what are you excited about today? |
| 0:12.4 | I feel like we can enrich in every single interaction, every drive, every commute, every little stop somewhere that we do throughout our days by having this |
| 0:23.0 | attitude. |
| 0:28.3 | Welcome everybody to the Chris Harder Show, where we are making you unapologetic about your |
| 0:32.9 | pursuit of success, knowing that when good people like you make good money, they can then |
| 0:37.0 | do great things. |
| 0:38.5 | My name is Chris Harder and several times per week, I will bring you epic guests, solo episodes, |
| 0:43.4 | and every single tool, trick, and skill set you need to grow your business, grow your money mindset, |
| 0:48.3 | and to grow your wealth to levels that you have never reached before. |
| 0:51.6 | I've ended up in a unique place in life where I've got the experience, |
| 0:54.6 | the connections, and all of the secrets that it takes to be successful. And I'm lifting the |
| 0:59.5 | curtain to reveal it all to you in an effort to help put you in a position of abundance so great |
| 1:04.6 | that you can then be as generous as possible. So let's lock arms and let's get started. |
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| 1:28.6 | muscle cramps. Maybe you're feeling a little moody, especially if you live somewhere really hot. |
| 1:32.6 | A lot of times, you are dehydrated. So you can either use your current hydration sticks, |
| 1:40.0 | which I guarantee don't even stack up to 50% of what Glosi is. |
| 1:44.2 | So you guys, go and check it out. |
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