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Therapist Uncensored Podcast

TU73: Building Grit Through Self-Compassion With Dr Kristin Neff (replay)

Therapist Uncensored Podcast

Sue Marriott LCSW, CGP & Ann Kelley PhD

Social Sciences, Society & Culture, Science, Education, Self-improvement, Relationships

4.71.5K Ratings

🗓️ 15 August 2018

⏱️ 60 minutes

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Summary

Self Compassion is an antidote to shame, the underpinning of narcissism.  It is fierce accountability that is core to psychological health… who knew?   Most of us think of it as being soft on yourself, but our guest will reveal the surprising power and science of self-compassion in this episode. Co-host Dr. Ann Kelley interviews Dr. Kristen Neff, an Associate Professor at the University of Texas at Austin and a foremost author and expert on Self Compassion. Self Esteem vs Self Compassion This is not feel-good, la-la, therapy-talk, it’s real science. Learn the important distinction between self esteem and self compassion, and how one can lead to psychological instability, self-criticism, stress, competition and difficulty within ourselves, our relationships and our culture. You really want to get this right and may be surprised! Treating yourself as your own best friend.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to therapist uncensored, a podcast where therapists freely speak their minds about real life matters.

0:09.0

Hi everyone, I'm Anne Kelly and Sue and I are preparing to launch our third season of therapist uncensored and we really think it's going to be our best yet.

0:22.0

And for the next couple weeks as we prepare, we've decided we really think it's going to be our best yet.

0:22.6

And for the next couple of weeks as we prepare,

0:24.6

we've decided to replay a few of our personal favorites

0:28.1

or our most popular episodes

0:30.5

that we want to make sure you didn't miss, especially on topics that we feel like are really relevant to our entire show.

0:37.0

So today's episodes on self-compassion, I interview Dr. Kristen Neff who's an internationally recognized expert and a teacher on

0:46.0

self-compassion.

0:47.4

So she is an associate professor of human development and culture at the University of Texas

0:52.2

and Austin and she teaches internationally on the topic and she's even been

0:56.8

featured on a TED Talk I think you're I know you're really going to enjoy it

1:00.7

you know we believe self-compassion is core to psychological health and

1:04.7

while it sounds you know like just be nice to yourself it is actually much richer

1:10.4

and at times a really difficult process to achieve and Dr. Neff has a way of

1:16.1

breaking it down and teaching it to us that it really comes alive. Let's get

1:21.0

started. In your recent TED Talk, you described yourself as a, I loved it, a self-compassioned evangelist.

1:29.4

Yes, I really am.

1:31.4

Yeah, it's kind of my, kind of my life's work and my goal to help as many people as possible learn about self-compassion and more recently to practice it.

1:42.0

So although I still do basic research on self-compassion, I'm really

1:45.8

focused on how do we teach this to people so they can be kinder to themselves.

1:50.9

Because you've seen so much about how important it really is to the well-being.

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