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Therapist Uncensored Podcast

TU66: Lessons from the Single-Not-Dating World on Using Attachment Science in Real Life, with Guest Becki Mendivil

Therapist Uncensored Podcast

Sue Marriott LCSW, CGP & Ann Kelley PhD

Social Sciences, Society & Culture, Science, Education, Self-improvement, Relationships

4.71.5K Ratings

🗓️ 4 June 2018

⏱️ 53 minutes

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Summary

All the single listeners (think Beyonce!) heads up.  Learn to use attachment science at work and delve more deeply into the avoidant end of the spectrum. Attachment science isn't just about relationships, it's decades of research on how we come to see ourselves and have unconscious expectations about the world. This conversation really highlights how to think about applying it in real life scenarios, sans therapy-speak.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to therapist uncensored, a podcast where therapists freely speak their minds about real life matters.

0:09.0

All right, welcome back. For those listeners following our adult attachment series,

0:16.6

you're really going to love this episode. Well, you know, actually even for new

0:20.0

listeners, this is a great one to get started on. In our show we do a lot of

0:24.3

discussion about building security within ourselves and in our relationships

0:31.0

and often we are talking about romantic relationships and you know what this applies in so many other ways and there are

0:38.3

many listeners out there that are not in romantic relationships often by choice. So instead today we're going to focus

0:45.2

on the single person not looking for a relationship. How does this work in all of what

0:50.3

we're talking about work in real life and in all sorts of situations.

0:54.8

And our guest today is Becky Mendeville.

0:58.0

Becky cracks you up with her honest to the point and really touching interpretation of what she has gained from

1:07.1

listening to our attachment series.

1:10.3

So she's going to be approaching it from a complete non-therapist single person perspective.

1:17.0

And really the conversation that Becky and Sue have is so enjoyable, Becky so rel relatable that it's going to be entertaining,

1:25.6

but really it has so much content in it as well.

1:29.4

All right, well, let's get started.

1:31.1

Hey everybody, welcome back.

1:32.7

This is Sue Marriott with Therapist Unsensored.

1:35.0

And we are so excited to bring you.

1:37.7

This is going to be fun because Becky Mendeville is.

1:40.7

Oh no, not my last name be talking to us about you know we've been doing all this attachment stuff all these therapists are like oh you know how about the glial cells and blah blah blah and

1:55.6

Becky's gonna bring us down to reality so anybody who is either new to this or you know it's not in a clinical setting wants to apply these are you know

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