So we're being with the child moment by moment, instant by instant.

In this instant, things are good.

I'm giving you recognition for it.

In this moment, you're breaking a rule.

I'm telling you to reset.

You stopped breaking the rule.

I'm celebrating with you.

You're breaking it again.

I'm telling you to reset and you are 5 seconds here with the child.

And if you keep your energy low enough when you're correcting and high enough, I look

at you patting the dog so gently and not running.

If it's high enough, children are attracted to that.

And that's where they will drift.

So your real power in your tripartis with San Tu, how steady of a flow of positive regard,

joyful vision of who this kid is and how they're revealing their own levels of beauty.

Can you be in the moment authentically, really feeling joy in your heart?

How authentically can you cause the child to see that you see beauty in this moment?

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