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Therapist Uncensored Podcast

TU143: Fear of Abandonment and Narcissism, with Dr. Ramani Durvasula

Therapist Uncensored Podcast

Sue Marriott LCSW, CGP & Ann Kelley PhD

Social Sciences, Society & Culture, Science, Relationships, Education, Self-improvement

4.71.5K Ratings

🗓️ 30 March 2021

⏱️ 49 minutes

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Summary

Dr. Ramani Durvasula joins us to deepen our series on challenging personalities and to discuss the underpinnings of narcissism as it relates to attachment. Sue Marriott LCSW, CGP and Dr. Durvasula discuss how to identify and navigate these tough relationships. See more at www.therapistuncensored.com/episodes

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That was another thing that contributed to this and this sort of celebration of really

0:05.0

distorted wealth.

0:06.6

That's something that's also happened in the last 25 years.

0:08.8

I think we've always known sort of this distinction between having have not, but it's really

0:13.1

on display in a very, very sort of unique way and everybody almost feels entitled to participate

0:19.1

in it.

0:20.1

So it's really caused this friction that I think is also contributing to this larger scale

0:24.9

sense of entitlement and dysregulation and exteriorization and getting all your value

0:31.4

from the things that are outside of you.

0:33.5

Here's a bottom line, economics tell us everything, right?

0:36.6

Look at who makes the most money in a culture and that'll speak volumes.

0:39.8

Given how little we pay teachers, social workers, therapists, and frankly amongst medical professionals,

0:45.9

the three groups that get paid the least are psychiatrists, family medicine, and pediatricians.

0:50.5

So what does that tell us?

0:51.5

It tells us we don't value professions that are based on the vulnerable, that are based

0:55.8

on empathy, that are based on compassion.

0:58.1

It's almost like the higher the empathy index of a job, the lower it pays.

1:04.2

Therapist Uncensored brings you decades of experience with interpersonal psychotherapy,

1:08.1

relational neuroscience, modern attachment, and anything else they think will be helpful

1:11.8

in healing humans.

1:13.3

Now here's your co-host, Dr. Anne Kelly and Sue Marriott.

1:23.3

Hey everybody, I'm Dr. Anne Kelly.

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