So we're being with the child moment by moment instant by instant.

In this instant things are good.

I'm giving you recognition for it.

In this moment you're breaking a rule.

I'm telling you to reset.

You stopped breaking the rule. I'm celebrating with you.

Oh, you're breaking it again. I'm telling you to reset and you are by seconds here with the child.

And if you keep your energy low enough when you're correcting and high enough, hey,

look at you patting the dog so gently and not running.

If it's high enough, children are attracted to that and that's where they will drift. So your real power

in nurtured hardies with Sand 2. How steady of a flow of positive regard, joyful

vision of who this kid is and how they're revealing their own levels of

beauty can you be in the moment authentically really feeling joy in your heart

how authentically can you cause the child to see

that you see beauty in him at this moment?

Therapist Unsensored brings you decades of experience with interpersonal psychotherapy, relational

neuroscience, modern attachment, and anything else they think will be helpful in healing humans.

Now, hear your co-host,. Ann Kelly and Sue Marriott.

Hi everyone, this is Ann Kelly.

In today's episode we are talking with Dr

Elizabeth Sylvester she's a psychologist and educator specializing in children and

teens and working with parents and families in Austin, Texas.

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