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Hey there, welcome the therapist uncensur. We are so happy that you have found this podcast.

And I think you've found a good one.

It's interesting and frankly pretty sexy. This episode is about

couples with unequal sexual desire and it is hosted by Dr. Ann Kelly and

Discussants include the podcast co-host Patty Awell and Sue Mariet.

So without further ado, let's get right to it.

Thanks, Sue. I'm excited to talk about this.

No pun intended, but I am excited to talk about this conversation because I think

unequal sexual desire, why do I want to talk about it? You say it's common. I see I think it is in most

relationships we have an unequal sexual desire and that's right there's one

pervert right exactly And one prude. Or at least that's how we end up feeling

in either of those positions.

That's exactly as you say. That's how people end up feeling. How people feel about having unequal sexual desires is a huge part of the

whole process and not only did they feel like a prude or a pervert but the one who

has the higher desire feels unloved because the partner doesn't want to have sex with them and the one that doesn't feel like having sex feels like, wow, maybe I'm not in love with my partner anymore.

Yeah, they can really draw some insecurities or too much emphasis about it.

Yeah.

It's so true.

Either that or just what's wrong with me, that I'm not feeling these normal feelings or what feelings that I used to feel.

I think the what's wrong with me is probably the biggest thing that I want to talk about today

because I think an equal sexual desire is in most relationships

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