Trying Too Hard To Make Her Chase You Leads To Ghosting

Coach Corey Wayne

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.6 • 532 Ratings

🗓️ 24 January 2023

⏱️ 15 minutes

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Why trying too hard to make her chase you leads to ghosting.

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0:00.0	Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne, and this is my video coaching newsletter.
0:04.2	And the topic of today's newsletter is going to be trying too hard to make her chase you leads to ghosting.
0:11.5	I've got an email today. This one is actually from a 41-year-old guy. He's been following me for a year.
0:18.2	He says he's read 3% man seven times so far. But he says his problem is that after he has
0:25.6	several dates, many which obviously he's getting intimate with her, that the women just tend to fade
0:31.1	away. And after reading his email, because obviously I already been through through it I can tell that part of what
0:38.0	he's doing is he's cherry picking and he's taking things too literally about what I talk about
0:43.5	and he's also taking some of the dates that I talk about that you do when you're trying to get
0:49.2	an ex back and incorporating that into his normal dating and seduction with women he just started dating.
0:56.9	And so what's happening here.
0:58.1	And then also the other thing is he's being extremely lazy.
1:02.2	And he just figures that all he has to do is sleep with the girl once.
1:05.7	And then she's just basically going to call him, come over and sleep with him whenever he wants.
1:09.6	He doesn't have to take her out.
1:10.6	He doesn't have to date her. He doesn't have to talk to her. It doesn't really have to do anything. And that's part of his problem here. So he's cherry picking things from the book and wondering and basically treating women like a booty call that he first meets. They pick up on it right away. And this one woman he's talking about here, I mean, you could
1:27.7	just tell that, I mean, some of the things she says, she's basically made to feel like she
1:31.8	was just a girl he was hooking up with and he didn't care.
1:34.3	And then he's surprised that they disappear on him.
1:38.8	So it's a good email to understand the difference between what you do when you're trying to attract an ex-back
1:46.3	and what you're trying to do and the process of getting a woman to a point where she'll
1:50.9	actually start calling you and texting you and eventually doing most of the calling, texting,
1:55.4	and pursuing, and all you have to do is make dates.
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