accused of cheating, which is not true. She broke up with me, blocked me, and two weeks of no

contact. So that is extremely rude. It's emotionally, mentally, verbally abusive to do that.

That's passive aggressive type of behavior. That's, and then so the other thing, you get to remember, no one will ever do

or see anything to you that isn't a direct reflection of how they feel about themselves

in a moment. So if you're dating somebody and you're a good, loyal, honest person,

and you know your own character and somebody's constantly accusing you of cheating,

typically it means

they're insecure but most importantly it usually means they are projecting what's inside in other words

they're probably doing things they shouldn't be doing entertaining attention from other guys

giving out their number whatever it happens to be and that's not a good sign. And in that kind of an instance, you've got to

set in enforce healthy boundaries. You're going to tell her it's like, that's not cool or loving to just accuse me as something I didn't do and then block me for two weeks and then show up and act like, it's okay. Nothing ever happened. I don't want to be in a relationship with somebody who does that if you're mad or you're upset, let's talk about it.

They're working out.

But to ghost me for two weeks and block me everywhere or you're upset, let's talk about it. They're working out.

But to ghost me for two weeks and block me everywhere, it's like, that's ratchet behavior.

And if that girl doesn't change, she can go on down the road. You need to set the healthy boundaries if she does come back and tell her it can't happen again. Because the stats are

when one or both people use breakups as a weapon

I actually did a video a couple years ago called that the statistics are if you're constantly

getting threatened or doing the threatening that you're going to break up with the other

person if they don't behave the way you want 95% of time they don't it doesn't work out

so that's not a way to have a healthy relationship.

Also, like I was saying earlier, she's insecure. And so therefore, people that cheat tend to

be insecure. They also assume everybody else is just like them. And the thought of being alone or not

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