Trusting your Gut, Being the Only Single one in the Friend Group, Wedding Planning Updates & more. Solo Q&A
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 18 July 2023
⏱️ 45 minutes
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Summary
Thanks for sending in your questions for today’s solo episode! We’re chatting: moving in before or after getting married, insecurities around dating someone a similar size, whether or not the relationship is doomed if he changed his mind about moving in together, how long I was on dating apps before I met Jake, when should you trust your gut vs. give someone the benefit of the doubt, how to navigate being single when your friends are all in relationships or getting married, and more!
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| 0:00.0 | This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation. |
| 0:04.8 | Hey guys, it's Alana and welcome back to another episode of Seeing Other People. |
| 0:10.1 | Together, we're navigating modern dating alongside experts and real-life daters who are sharing their stories. |
| 0:16.1 | Don't have a date for tonight? No problem. Come learn, laugh, and maybe even cry along with us as we navigate the dating |
| 0:22.3 | scene together. Hey guys, it's Alana and welcome back for another episode of seeing other people. |
| 0:29.5 | I am doing one of my favorite kinds of episodes today and I'm so excited. We have a solo Q&A app today. |
| 0:35.9 | So first and foremost, thank you to everybody who's sent in questions. Don't forget, you can always submit a question at the link in my bio on Instagram. There is a form you can fill out. It's also saved as a highlight on Instagram. And you can write as much as you want, give me as much context as you want into what is going on so I can help you to the best of my ability. And if I can't help answer your question, I will bring in an expert guest to Ken. Also want to give a shout out to some of these amazing dating wins that were sent in that I need to share and need to kick off this episode with because I really am just so proud of you all. And I think my favorite part and like the coolest thing about these dating wins is I see you guys |
| 1:10.9 | week after week saying, you know, maybe one week. It's like I ended things with somebody who |
| 1:15.5 | couldn't give me what he deserved or who was making me feel anxious. And then a few weeks later, |
| 1:20.5 | that same person's writing in that they're getting back out there after taking a little break |
| 1:26.0 | because of something bad that happened with somebody. |
| 1:28.4 | And then a few weeks later, that person saying, like, they met someone, they're going on a |
| 1:32.1 | third date with them and they're so excited. |
| 1:33.9 | Like, it's so cool. |
| 1:35.3 | And to see this journey unfold. |
| 1:38.2 | And I know for everybody else looking at the responses that I'm sharing on the story, |
| 1:42.1 | everything's anonymous. |
| 1:43.0 | So you guys have no idea. |
| 1:44.3 | But what you don't know is that you're like following people's love stories as they unfold |
| 1:49.7 | from like dramatic, painful breakup into like the healing process and then into getting back |
| 1:57.2 | out there and then like really finding somebody great. And it's just so cool that we get to do this together. And I love it. So thank you guys for sharing. Okay. |
| 2:05.9 | Ooh, this is a fun one to start off. Somebody said, my boyfriend got added to the group chat by my |
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