"Divorced At 29 With Three Kids"
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 13 July 2023
⏱️ 56 minutes
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Summary
I'm joined by a 29-year-old divorceé and mother of three who opens up about the emotionally and financially abusive realtionship. We hear what their relationship was like as high school sweethearts and how it evolved overtime and once kids were involved. She shares how he made her think she was always at fault, but how she stayed because she was so blindly in love with him and wanted to make it work. Finally, we hear what led them to ultimately call it quits, and how coparenting has been.
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| 0:00.0 | This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation. |
| 0:04.8 | Hey guys, it's Alana and you're listening to seeing other people unfiltered. |
| 0:09.8 | It's Thursday, so that means real-life daters are coming on to share their real, sometimes shocking, and always unfiltered experiences. |
| 0:17.7 | Think you're alone out there? |
| 0:18.9 | Think you're the only one whose ex hooked up with your mom or whose |
| 0:21.9 | last date ended up being a catfish? Think again. I am anonymous. I am 29 and I am divorced with three kids |
| 0:31.0 | navigating the dating life. But mainly I'm here to talk about my previous marriage. |
| 0:41.0 | I was with this person for 11 years. |
| 0:42.8 | We started dating in high school. |
| 0:45.3 | And we were married for seven. |
| 0:48.8 | So essentially like half of my life with one person. |
| 0:49.7 | Wow. |
| 0:58.3 | And before we really get into it, I do want to ask, how are you feeling today about recording this? And the reason I asked just for some context for everyone else, Anonymous and I have spoken before. |
| 1:04.2 | We actually recorded this episode a few weeks back and decided, I'm really proud of you for this. She emailed me and said that after |
| 1:14.2 | reflecting on our conversation, there were things that she didn't really get into as much as she |
| 1:21.9 | would have wanted to because of, you know, it's hard to kind of go back and retell such a long |
| 1:27.4 | relationship with so many |
| 1:28.3 | challenges. But I think there were things you felt like you held back on or kind of protected |
| 1:33.5 | him on. And I'm really proud of you for realizing that and having the bravery to come back and |
| 1:40.1 | do it again. So, yeah, just how are you feeling about it today? Yeah, I'm feeling pretty good |
| 1:46.9 | about it. And listening back, you know, to the episode, of course, you kind of like nitpick like, |
| 1:53.4 | oh, I wish I would have said that or explain that a little bit better. And then I kind of listened to it, |
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