I can tell there's some frustration there. You've probably lived that. Oh, I literally picture someone

while I'm saying these things. Avoidance, they don't want love. They do. They want it so bad.

As soon as the increase of commitment happens, then the fear comes in. If I'm committed,

then I can get hurt. I don't think people should be friends with their exes. It's very difficult,

and most of the time, one person, if not both, are lying about not having feelings still.

It's kind of like growing up, like guys who have friends who are girls, they're hot, you always like them.

You pretend you're their friend, but you always want to be with them.

There's always one that goes, we're not doing anything else.

But the other one is usually like, man, if you give me the chance.

I will do it. Yeah. I'm in.

He's left with less dating opportunities and his amount of evidence that he's not good enough.

And then he finds this escape hatch. He finds women who are infinitely beautiful. They never reject him.

They always say yes. Two, three in the morning. Doesn't matter. She's always awake.

I mean, I'm like wildly disappointed with the dating world these days. It really sucks.

I'm interested to hear what sucks for you. I feel like there's what sucks for everyone is maybe a little bit different,

but probably similar. I mean, if you believe in hypergamy, I'm screwed. So let's hope that,

you know, if that, you know, the like hypergamy dating are hierarchy like where like men date

laterally and down and women date laterally and up as far as like success and intelligence.

Okay. Yeah. Okay. Have you ever heard about that uh i mean i don't haven't looked into it much honestly so now why would you

say that you're screwed if that's the case um because uh that would mean i need to find someone

that's been more successful than me someone that that is smarter than me, someone that is more dominant than me. Yeah. Yeah, that's probably going to be challenging. I really don't think that's true? No, I mean, in some cases, I think it can be. Sure, there could be patterns, but I don know I would I would really want to ask like is that

like a pop culture like ideology like a thing that we've kind of decided is true or is there like

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