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Sons of Patriarchy

Trauma and Healing in the Church

Sons of Patriarchy

Peter Bell & Sarah Bader

Religion & Spirituality

4.2649 Ratings

🗓️ 6 March 2025

⏱️ 38 minutes

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We're on a break until Season 2! Until then, we'll publish an episode every Thursday, and (some) bonus episodes on Saturdays.

Resources Mentioned:
Chuck DeGroat's website.
Healing What's Within by Chuck DeGroat
When Narcissism Comes to Church by Chuck DeGroat
Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse by David Johnson & Jeff VanVonderen
Escaping the Maze of Spiritual Abuse by Lisa Oakley & Justin Humphreyes
46 Resources on Spiritual Abuse by Bob Kellemen

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0:17.8

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0:20.5

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0:24.0

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0:31.5

and helps pay the bills of the series. Now, on to the episode.

0:45.0

All right, somebody have heard from experts, from abuse survivors, from former ministers,

0:51.1

from kind of across the theological spectrum, but all have in some way, shape, or form been affected by the series C, been affected by Wilson or his

0:54.7

teachings, culturally, theological, ideologically, politically, whatever it may have been.

1:00.3

And I'm super happy and pleased to have a counselor who's coming on.

1:04.7

We'll have more counselors coming on to talk about spiritual abuse, physical abuse, church

1:09.4

abuse, more generally.

1:11.1

So if you can introduce yourself where you're associated with, where you're employed,

1:14.7

and maybe what your research has been focused on.

1:19.8

Yeah. Well, hey, Peter. Good to be with you.

1:23.5

Chuck de Groat. I am a professor of pastoral care and Christian spirituality at Western Theological Seminary, which is a reform seminary in the Dutch Reformed Tradition, the Reform Church of America, and the founding director of the clinical mental health counseling program here.

1:40.6

And I've written a book called When Narcissism Comes to Church, but really the work for me goes back to the mid-1990s when I was a student at Reformed Theological Seminary in Orlando, a conservative reformed context.

1:53.5

In the context of the seminary and churches where women in particular were experiencing abuse, but there was really no

2:02.5

acknowledgement of it or validation of it, if you want to say it that way.

2:09.2

Mostly was swept under the rug or rationalized in one way or another.

2:14.1

And so I've been involved in these kinds of conversations from very early on when I was being

2:19.2

trained as a, both a pastor and ordained minister and a therapist.

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