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We are getting into it, aren't we, JJ, today with the number one thing that people have been asking us lately.

Yeah, it's like the ambiguous gray. I don't want to say wasteland, but it's just the

confusing place that if you're in a relationship or talking, like this is the majority of

relationships. Yeah. I think the biggest question that we get a lot of times is, how long should I stay in something

if it's confusing?

And there's a lot of ambiguity, a lot of gray waters out there where people are just like

in a boat, in a fog, and they have no idea what to do.

Now, do you think it's a majority of females asking this question?

I do think probably lots of ladies are asking this question. Yeah. I think so too, because naturally they're looking for a man to lead. Yeah. And maybe they're not leading. So let's get into it. So today, this is a Patreon bonus episode. You're going to hear a snippet of this on YouTube. And if you want to hear the full

episode and know all the things as it relates to what we, how to handle a confusing situation,

then you can join our Patreon community for $5 a month. It's a way to support this podcast. Go to

patreon.com forward slash heart of dating. We also have a special member joining us for this episode

this is our son winslow he's just two months old little bubba he hates a lie but we're making

him suffer because no poor baba he's cute and we want you guys to see him. He's like, wait, this is bright, guys. Yeah. So, JJ, okay, let's talk about it. If someone comes up to you and they're like, hey, I've been in this talking thing or I've been going on dates with slash talking to this person for some time, but I'm just confused. I don't know where they stand. I don't know

if they actually like me or not. What would you say to them? Well, I think the first thing is

that the confusion and the lack of information and the greatness is information. Whether you like it

or not, they are communicating something, especially if there's absence or lack of

communication. That silence means something. It's not meaningless. And I think a lot of times it's

giving you an indicator of the kind of leader or person you are in relationship with. Yeah.

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