S17 Ep293: Bitterness, Comparison, and Scarcity: Navigating Singleness and Disappointment with Bianca Juarez
Heart of Dating
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4.8 • 2.1K Ratings
🗓️ 18 March 2026
⏱️ 51 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | My hesitation and my fear is that we have idolized marriage in a way that God's goodness equals |
| 0:06.4 | partnership. What happens if you once had that and then it's taken away? There have been moments |
| 0:12.3 | where I have said, God, this isn't fair and allowed bitterness to creep in. Catching it in |
| 0:19.6 | its embryonic form will spare you turmoil, |
| 0:23.1 | will spare you bitterness, will spare you jealousy. |
| 0:26.0 | Can we set the table without expectation to have conversation for transformation |
| 0:30.1 | with somebody the opposite sex? |
| 0:32.2 | I think that would be really different. |
| 0:34.1 | I think it would feel different. |
| 0:35.7 | And we acknowledge the scarcity, but create place for |
| 0:38.9 | abundance. When your life feels broken and shattered into a million pieces and you feel like |
| 0:44.5 | all hope is gone, you don't have to be alone in picking up the pieces of your life. There is |
| 0:50.2 | true healing that could take place if you take those pieces and put them back into the hands |
| 0:55.3 | of a God who loves you. |
| 1:07.6 | Has there ever come a point in your life where you think, I just didn't think this would be my life at this point in time? |
| 1:14.2 | Today, Bianca Juarez comes on to tell us about her story of brokenness but also redemption. |
| 1:20.3 | And we talk about scarcity and comparison and the grief of unmet expectations. |
| 1:26.7 | And Bianca is so vulnerable. She is absolutely amazing. |
| 1:30.2 | She's a pastor, a speaker, and she is newly single in her life, which is wild because she's |
| 1:36.8 | still carrying this amazing platform. And today she talks about her story and really gets to |
| 1:42.0 | relate to you guys, our singles community. It's so powerful. |
| 1:46.0 | It's so encouraging. You'll laugh. You'll maybe cry. You're going to love this episode with |
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