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The Slumflower Hour

TRANSPARENCY?

The Slumflower Hour

W!ZARD Studios

Self-improvement, Education

4.9549 Ratings

🗓️ 17 October 2025

⏱️ 69 minutes

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Summary

Are women conflating oversharing with bonding? Does telling men every single thing strengthen the relationship? Is your husband truly being transparent with you? In this episode, join Chidera as she talks all the reasons you need to be less 'transparent' with men - and why honesty constantly being expected of women, is part of the grooming process. Join my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions! Get my latest book ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcript

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0:00.0

What I've dedicated my life to is revenge.

0:04.7

A brand new drama based on the best-selling novel.

0:07.5

They think they're better than us?

0:08.5

Who do you think you are?

0:09.7

I'm going to prove to them that they're wrong.

0:11.5

She's punishing me.

0:13.0

You destroyed my family.

0:14.3

I will not rest until I've destroyed yours.

0:17.0

A woman of substance on Channel 4 starts tonight at 9.

0:19.9

We need to have a conversation. We need to have a conversation.

0:22.7

We need to have a conversation about transparency, specifically about honesty, because it has come to

0:32.0

my realisation that you lot are telling these men way too much.

0:37.1

And I thought that we had all mutually agreed

0:39.9

that we will not be using oversharing as a tool for bonding.

0:46.8

But I guess some of you must have missed that meeting.

0:50.9

So we're going to have to have that meeting again.

0:57.2

Transparency is quite an interesting word.

1:02.0

When we think about the word transparency, what comes to mind.

1:09.5

For me, what comes to mind is telling everything in as much accurate detail as

1:19.6

possible. What comes to mind is being truthful and honest and clear and not keeping anything ambiguous because the purpose of

1:32.3

transparency, the purpose of honesty is to communicate sincerity, right? And usually that sincerity matters

1:40.0

when you are with somebody who you trust, someone you care about, someone who you want the relationship

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