My boyfriend and I's mutual friends uninvited me from their wedding, stating that I was causing

drama and disrespecting people around them, and now I'm stuck with a $500 plane ticket, while my boyfriend

is still a groomsman in this wedding. And at this point, I seriously don't know what to do. Here's

what happened. So I was supposed to attend the wedding of my friend and my boyfriend's best friend

in a few days. However, I just found out that I've been

uninvited from the wedding entirely. The wedding is across the country and the plane tickets for it

are over $500 and they're non-refundable. My parents bought the tickets as my Christmas gift since I

couldn't afford them, but it was a lot of money even for them. My boyfriend is a groomsman at this wedding to a guy

that he's been best friends with, and we have been in a friend group with for years. When my boyfriend

asked him what was happening, he said he didn't know they were going to run out of space, so they

had to get rid of all of the plus ones, and that I was never actually formally invited, but just as a

plus one to the wedding.

On top of this, both of the people getting married unadded me on all social media.

When my boyfriend asked why, he responded that I had disrespected my boyfriend a lot,

disrespected his fiance by talking crap about her to his sister,

and then also disrespected his sister. The conversation in which he's referring to was one

his sister brought up to me, my boyfriend, and her roommate one day. Everything said was agreed on

by everyone in the four-way conversation. Now, when it comes to disrespecting his sister, I have no

idea where this is coming from. For context, his sister liked my boyfriend, and repeatedly for months

this year, flirted with and tried to get close to him in front of me.

She started being a massive cold jerk to me out of nowhere, which I later learned was when he cut her off.

As far as disrespecting my boyfriend goes, I am not perfect and I have made mistakes.

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