Toxic Cycles, Friendship Gaps, Situationship Confusion & “Invoice Your Ex?” Debate
Dear Tisia
Relationship Restored
5.0 • 866 Ratings
🗓️ 17 November 2025
⏱️ 49 minutes
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Summary
This week on Dear Tisia, we’re diving into emotional cycles, adult friendship struggles, confusing situationships, and one wild viral debate that has the internet divided.
💌 Voicemail #1: A woman is stuck in an on-again, off-again toxic relationship filled with manipulation, verbal abuse, and heartbreak. She knows she deserves better, but the emotional addiction won’t let her go.
💔 Voicemail #2: At 26, another caller feels disconnected from her peers. She’s intentional, mature, and ready for deep friendships — but everyone around her feels surface-level or inconsistent. Is she asking for too much, or just surrounded by the wrong people?
😩 Voicemail #3: Then a woman dating a man who acts like her boyfriend — while saying he’s “not ready for a relationship.” His actions say yes. His words say no. So what does she do?
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🚩 Red Flag Report: A woman went viral for wanting to invoice her ex for wasting 10 years of her life and “stealing her childbearing years.” Should someone be compensated for time lost — or is the real red flag staying that long hoping someone would change?
👇 Drop your thoughts in the comments — Would YOU invoice an ex, or take the L and move forward?
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| 0:00.0 | ladies please watch these men daily habits I don't know how it is so important to me |
| 0:06.8 | you need to watch if these men are drinking all the time smoking on that hookah all right |
| 0:13.6 | all the time they're not working out they don't have any type of regimen they don't make |
| 0:18.7 | their bed okay they don't have a hygiene routine |
| 0:21.3 | do not date a man that don't have a hydrogen routine if you go into his bathroom and he |
| 0:25.8 | ain't got a toiletry bag for a beard oil a face moisturizer a lip bomb okay he if do not date those |
| 0:33.3 | men i'm telling you you need somebody that really has structure in their life. |
| 0:38.4 | And when you see somebody's bad habits like that, that is drinking and getting belligerally, |
| 0:44.0 | we are too old for that. |
| 0:45.4 | Control yourself. |
| 0:46.4 | You can't even go out and have a good time. |
| 0:48.6 | Those silent addiction is just so real. |
| 0:52.1 | It's in people gambling. |
| 0:53.4 | It's in people being on their phone all the time. It's even in the opposite way. People that have like extreme ways of being healthy. It's like now you're not eating beef. Now you intermittent fast and now you own some type of steroid. Now you're working on everything. Like you have to really watch some people's the men that you're dating daily habits because that |
| 1:13.2 | he's he's probably he's probably a silent alcoholic you know Hey y'all, welcome back to Dear Tasia. |
| 1:37.0 | We have a few reminders followed Dear Ticilia podcast on Apple and Spotify. |
| 1:42.4 | Leave us a five-star review. one not two five stars very good class |
| 1:48.8 | subscribe to relationship restored and the dear to seea YouTube channel is under to seea xv and then |
| 1:55.3 | we need to get there to see it up until 10k I'm not going to talk to y'all about you again. 10K, okay? We're almost there. If you're watching, click the button and subscribe. Now for our peanut gallery, this is my home grow. I need y'all. Me and I need to go way back. I know I like to tell y'all how I met my peanut gallery guests me wanting to go way back we both went to |
| 2:18.7 | grass school together UT hookahorns period okay we went to grasp together and I'll never forget |
| 2:26.4 | when I was visiting looking for jobs to move here to to the DMV probably like 10 years ago |
| 2:33.0 | Juanita was like so my home girl Angie tell to see if she need a couch to sleep off. I never forget that. We were rocking ever since. So anyways, kind of like the first person I knew that lived here when I moved. So anyways, one of my favorite Virgo's too. Y'all know i love a virgo love a vergo okay so we have |
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