11 Years of Cheating, Military Heartbreak, Move-In Pressure, & Dating Without a Village
Dear Tisia
Relationship Restored
5.0 • 866 Ratings
🗓️ 10 November 2025
⏱️ 53 minutes
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Summary
This week on Dear Tisia, we’re talking about heartbreak, hard truths, and the courage to protect your peace — even when love complicates everything.
💌 A wife discovers that her husband’s “growth” came after 11 years of deception. He’s in therapy and finally stable… but how do you heal when his transformation came too late?
💔 A 23-year-old Navy woman opens up about losing love in the middle of deployment — and how to rebuild when your ex still shares your workspace and your memories.
🏡 And a woman in love with her stud girlfriend faces the question: Should she move in to save money, even when her spirit says no?
✨ In Btch You Smell Good*, we feature House by Zernell Gillie, a unisex fragrance inspired by Chicago’s house music — bold, smooth, and full of rhythm.
🚩 Finally, the Red Flag Report explores how dating in isolation may be doing us more harm than good. Have we lost the power of our village — and with it, the guidance that once protected our hearts?
👇 Drop your thoughts in the comments — Would you stay, move in, or walk away?
#DearTisia #ModernLove #RelationshipAdvice #HealingJourney #RedFlagReport
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| 0:00.0 | And I always say you got to watch the dog that bring the bone. And a lot of times the dog then went all around town up the alley down the sewer and they bringing you back the bone and you don't know where that dog came from. And I say that to say that a lot of times the information that you're receiving, if you don't know the dog that's bringing the bone |
| 0:21.7 | like you said a lot of people's base is mixed up a lot of people have a lot of trauma okay i just |
| 0:27.9 | experienced this with a young lady that was on my my life and she was saying that her mom was with a |
| 0:34.6 | man just for the money and he was abusive. |
| 0:38.2 | And so now she's in a relationship that I don't, that she doesn't want to be in. |
| 0:42.5 | And the mom is telling her, were that man paying your bills? |
| 0:47.6 | You're going to walk away from that? |
| 0:49.0 | You got to watch the dog that bring the bone because your mama was with men that didn't want her and she was |
| 0:56.0 | with him because he was a financial provider and now you found yourself in the same situation |
| 1:01.3 | and you're going back to that dog asking about that bone and that person then went around |
| 1:06.8 | the neighborhood up the alley through the gangway okay you have to be careful where you get in the source of your information. |
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