On this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse Q&A, we discuss the top signs of trauma in adults.

Welcome. Welcome to Narcissist Apocalypse Q&A, everyone.

I am Brandon Chadwick, and today we are going to discuss the top signs of trauma in adults.

You may be going through these things before a relationship, within the relationship, after the relationship. These are things to look

for. Sometimes these things can really get in the way of living, but also within the relationship.

Some of these things might be getting masked of what's really going on as well,

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and please do send it in the format that we ask for. So again, as I said before, today we're going

to discuss signs of trauma in adults. And the first

one I have on my list is hyper independence. And for hyper independence, you can't be let down

by someone or anyone if you never ask for anything in the first place you never ask for help you don't want to

be a burden to someone everything is then on your shoulders this can be very tiring and you probably

want help but just don't know how to ask for it and this could just be a very big catch 22

and if you're a hyper-dependent person in an

abusive relationship, this can mask that you are with an abuser for a very long time until the

day you finally say no or ask for something. It's why I recommend for people to say no early on

in relationships and often

just to see how someone will react to it. Obviously in the aftermath of a relationship,

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