Haya & The Neglectful Cheating Narcissist | Domestic Violence, Narcissistic Abuse

Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

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🗓️ 22 April 2024

⏱️ 73 minutes

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Summary

In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Haya tells the story of marrying the man of her dreams, only to find out he was living a double life. One day, the heat stopped working at Haya's home, only for Haya to find out that her husband hadn't paid the bill for months. Even though Haya accepted his excuse, this began a line of questioning as things didn't add up. And unfortunately for Haya, the more she asked questions, the more the marriage unraveled, and that's when she found out how abusive her husband really could be. It's a story of infidelity, debt, bankruptcy, neglect, physical abuse, intimidation, gaslighting, facades, mask slipping, lies, child physical abuse, shame, guilt, hoovering, manipulation, double standards, ego, and financial abuse. ***CONTENT WARNING - This episode discusses physical abuse and child physical abuse.*** If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com To help out our podcast, please fill out our listener survey, click here. PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS: Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here Something Was Wrong | Click Here If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA

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0:00.0	On this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, we talk with an abuse survivor named Haya, and Haya was married to a neglectful cheating abuser.
0:10.6	It's a story of facades, gaslighting, mask slipping, intimidation, and physical abuse.
0:36.6	Music and physical abuse. Welcome to Narcissist Apocalypse, everyone.
0:41.5	I am Brandon Chadwick, and with me today, we have Haya.
0:47.3	How are you?
0:49.0	Good, thank you.
0:50.8	Well, thank you for being here today, Haya. And if you want to be a guest like Haya is today, please do go to our website at Narcissistapocalypse.com.
1:01.8	Top of the page, there's a button that says guest form.
1:04.3	When you click on that button, it takes you to our guest form page.
1:07.8	And there you can read all of our instructions and either send us an email at
1:10.8	Narcissist Apocalypse at gmail.com or fill out our guest form and press the submit button.
1:16.0	And please do send it in the format that we ask for. And today's episode has a content warning
1:21.6	as we do discuss physical abuse and child physical abuse in this episode. So that is your
1:27.3	content warning for today.
1:29.9	And today we're going to hear Hayah's story.
1:32.0	And Hayes story is a slow build story.
1:35.0	The family life just isn't the life that they really wanted to lead.
1:39.6	So when questions are asked, you know, when Hayes starts to ask questions down the road, gaslighting
1:45.5	begins and slowly, you know, piece by piece, you're going to hear a story where the mass
1:49.7	starts to slip and the realization that everything is fine as long as high as husband isn't
1:55.2	questioned. And they like to do the bare minimum as part as being a family member.
2:03.1	And it's really just a big variation on the frog in the boiling pot kind of story.
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