All right, guys, three communication game changers, and neither of us knows what each other is going to say.

This morning, I said, hey, babe, I have an idea for a podcast. Let's sit down and do a podcast on our top

three communication hacks in our marriage. But here's the catch. We can't share what we're going to say.

So here we go. This is this is live. This is happening.

Let's see if there's any overlap or if we have completely distinct things to say and notice any

patterns. Here we go. I get to interview my wife who has worked with couples for 15 years

to see what she is using on me over the last, I don't know, decade and a half, right?

So what would you say is your top hack, or at least your first hack that you use against me

in our communication, in our marriage.

I didn't prioritize these in order of like which one's the most important.

But the first one that came to mind that I wrote down is that I need to give you my full

attention.

This hasn't always been the case.

And there are plenty of times where I don't give you my full attention, but I notice

the difference when I don't.

And so I need to put down what I'm working on.

You know, if I have my phone or my computer in front of my face and you're trying to talk

to me.

First of all, if I actually can't give you my full attention in that moment or like I'm right

in the middle of something, it's best just to let you know that.

Yeah.

And it's really helpful when you do.

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