Top 10 Reasons Why An Abusive Partner Doesn’t Want To Change - Narcissist Apocalypse Q&A

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🗓️ 28 April 2023

⏱️ 32 minutes

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Brandon talks about the 'top 10 reasons why an abusive partner doesn't want to change' from the book 'Why Does He Do That?' by Lundy Bancroft. Lundy Bancroft's book 'Why Does He Do That?' can be purchased by clicking here. If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com Thank you to our sponsor BETTERHELP. If you need online counseling from anywhere in the world, please do go to https://www.betterhelp.com/nap Get started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Thank you to our sponsor NEW MAJORITY VENTURES. To listen to their new podcast, Porch Talks, click here. If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:30.8	On this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse Q&A, we discussed the top 10 reasons why an abusive
0:37.4	partner doesn't want to change. Welcome to Narcissist Apocalypse Q&A, everyone.
1:05.7	I am Brandon Chadwick, and today we are going to discuss the benefits an abuser gets from their
1:12.4	abusive behavior. But before we get to that, if you want to be a guest on our Survivor Story
1:18.6	episodes, please do go to our website at Narcissistapocalypse.com. Top of the page, there's a button
1:24.5	that says guest form. When you click on that button, it takes you to our
1:28.1	guest form page. There, you can read all of our instructions, and either send us an email at
1:32.4	Narcissist Apocalypse.g.com or fill out our guest form and press the submit button. And please
1:38.1	do send it in the format that we ask for. So today we are going to be discussing the benefits an abuser gets from their
1:46.7	abusive behavior, why it is desirable to them, what are the rewards, and how do these things
1:53.1	get reinforced. And the information today is coming from Lundy Bancroft's book. Why does he do that?
1:59.8	It is a wonderful book. We've done episodes from
2:02.5	parts of this book before. So please go by this book. It is a very good book for anyone who is
2:08.0	experiencing abuse and is trying to figure out what is going on or even in the aftermath to
2:13.6	really understand what has happened and who you are dealing with in the who, what
2:18.6	wears and whys of everything.
2:21.6	So here is an example from why does he do that by Lundy Bancroft, and it's all about
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